Jay13094 Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 I have the biggest crush on this guy I work with and he flirts with me a lot too. He always comes to my section of work when he can and he'll always playfully touch me whenever he can. I have a lot of fun working the same days As him. I've worked with him about 4 - 5 times now and I went in the other day to eat dinner (I was off). My friends even said how nervous he seemed around me and that he def likes me. He asks me for a hug goodbye when I get off work earlier and yesterday he asked one before he left. My friend was wing woman and ask if he had my number thus I ended up giving it to him on a napkin. When he got off I asked if he still had it and he forgot he lost it but he said yeah and then said "come here" and gave me a hug. My friend said that he said he'll text me during our hug exchange but I don't recall. Either way it's only been a day but the anticipation is killing me. How long do you guys wait to text a girl that u like too??
Qboro90 Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 The part about you giving him your number and your friend being involved was really confusing. Can you explain a bit clearer what exactly happened with that? Also it's only been a day, don't over think this. If he knows he's going to see you tm at work then he might not feel so pressed to text you tonight. Give it a few days. If you want to talk to him then you always have the choice to send him a text after works over and establish that it's ok for him to talk to you outside of work. He might not be sure if you're just being nice and flirty at work or want more. Texting and talking after work is over will show that you both want a more personal relationship.
Author Jay13094 Posted August 19, 2015 Author Posted August 19, 2015 The part about you giving him your number and your friend being involved was really confusing. Can you explain a bit clearer what exactly happened with that? Also it's only been a day, don't over think this. If he knows he's going to see you tm at work then he might not feel so pressed to text you tonight. Give it a few days. If you want to talk to him then you always have the choice to send him a text after works over and establish that it's ok for him to talk to you outside of work. He might not be sure if you're just being nice and flirty at work or want more. Texting and talking after work is over will show that you both want a more personal relationship. He's a server. He wasn't yesterday but he was working and basically called him over to ask if he had my number or not (setting it up for me so it's not as awkward) then I just wrote my number on a napkin and gAve it to him haha. I don't work with him til prob 2 weeks tho cz our schedules aren't the same
d0nnivain Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 Give it a while longer. Just because we have the ability to communicate 24/7 doesn't mean we're obligated to. He's probably working up his courage.
ExpatInItaly Posted August 20, 2015 Posted August 20, 2015 A day isn't that long. Give it a bit of time. But one thing - are you sure he is single?
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