groundbreaker Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 All, I've posted over the last 8 months various things with my ex, but now that I've been out dating I've run into an issue. I'm a good looking, honest, funny, charming, successful guy, but I'm having a hard time finding somebody I'm physically attracted too. I go on dates with some really awesome women. There is nothing inherently wrong with them except I don't feel a chemistry and no real spark. Good looking women that are also smart, fun, and great to be around. When things progress to a second or third date or sometimes sooner I can really tell that they are attracted to me, and are hinting on getting sexual I find myself just not really into them physically. Up to my previous ex of 5 years I always dated young looking petite women. I'm very much turned on without much of a effort of them trying to look sexy. Everyone has their thing right? Anyway I don't know what to do, my area doesn't lend itself to have the most fit women, and I focus on keeping my body in shape as well as my mind and finances. I'm starting to feel like this is becoming an issue.
d0nnivain Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 It's a combo of things & one of the most weighty factors may be that you haven't fully healed yet & even though you have put yourself out there in the dating world you are not really ready. I am one who needs that initial spark so I call offer is that if you don't feel it, you don't feel it & it probably won't grow over time so don't progress beyond at most the 2nd date if it's not working. Maybe take a bit more time off before you try dating again, at least the rest of the summer.
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