Intrepidcaribou Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 I moved to this small town a few months ago. I made a bunch of friends at work, but all of them are married except one guy who has become my little buddy. All the women I know are married or partnered (there are significantly more men than women in my city). He has a female friend who is moving in with him from back east. I think she's in love with him. I don't think he's in any way attractive, so she can have him. I'm celibate anyway because I'm not good at being a girlfriend (eccentric, no domestic inclinations or skills) and I haven't been attracted to anyone in years. I'm afraid, since I'm on my own, people are going to stop inviting me to things. I don't mind too too much. I don't mind being alone but I hate being excluded.
d0nnivain Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 If the married people you do interact with invite you to things now, they won't stop just because this other guy got a GF. Be friendly. Invite others to things & live your life. Also do try to widen your circle to include other singles.
Author Intrepidcaribou Posted August 19, 2015 Author Posted August 19, 2015 (edited) The married people tend to hang out with other twosomes. Even though my little buddy and I weren't involved, we made the numbers even. I don't know anybody else in this community who's single. Single women don't seem to stay single for long Edited August 19, 2015 by Intrepidcaribou
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