The Loveweary Trainwreck Thread [Consolidated]

[loveweary11]

Feel free to consolidate my last couple threads here, mods. Attempting to keep the discussions out of other threads such as the Tinder thread.

 

Well, folks, it has happened.

 

I have met the woman of my dreams. We haven't met in person yet, but have been talking non stop. I'm going to see her in Boston this weekend.

 

She is younger, but amazingly mature.

 

She is into just about everything I'm into. She is a healthy food nut, doesn't drink or smoke, loves exercise and long, long walks, is free to travel.

 

She's in amazing shape, she's beautiful. Not that exact physical type I have bedn looking for. Still petite and muscular, but lighter brown coloring.

 

She's got a unique coloring. She's sick of all the garbage out there and had all the same complaints I do about the dating world.

 

She is (as far as i can tell) very, very sweet and nice inside.

 

Very much looking forward to going to see her this weekend.

 

I finally found diamond in the rock pile. Just need to bring it in for GIA certification now.

[40 Fonzarelli]

You're gonna do a LDR? How did you meet her?

[Under The Radar]

I think it's great you met someone you are attracted to with similar life philosophies and a sweet disposition ...... I'm sincere when I say that

 

However, it's the honeymoon phase and people's true compatibility can take time to truly suss out.

 

So have fun, explore, and get to know her ...... but understand she may not be the perfect diamond for you ...... rose colored glasses haven't helped you in the past.

 

Good luck LW.

[BlueIris]

… She is into just about everything I'm into. She is a healthy food nut, doesn't drink or smoke, loves exercise and long, long walks, is free to travel. …

 

You were drunk two days ago and getting drunk with yoga girl was something you touted as one of the great positives of that relationship. If you want to build an authentic relationship with integrity, let her know that you drink big time and smoke pot or you'll keep wrecking your own train.

[loveweary11]

You were drunk two days ago and getting drunk with yoga girl was something you touted as one of the great positives of that relationship. If you want to build an authentic relationship with integrity, let her know that you drink big time and smoke pot or you'll keep wrecking your own train.

 

Hey sweetie. Nice to hear from you again. Your positivity is truly uplifting.

 

You seem to have misread something somewhere.

 

I drink here and there socially to hang out with others. I didnt drink or smoke anything while married. Been partying to pass the time between good things.

 

Now I'll be pair bonding again if it works out and leaving all of that time filler behind.

[loveweary11]

I think it's great you met someone you are attracted to with similar life philosophies and a sweet disposition ...... I'm sincere when I say that

 

However, it's the honeymoon phase and people's true compatibility can take time to truly suss out.

 

So have fun, explore, and get to know her ...... but understand she may not be the perfect diamond for you ...... rose colored glasses haven't helped you in the past.

 

Good luck LW.

 

Yup.

 

Initial stages only. Might be terrible, but more fundamentally compatible, it seems.

 

Will know as time goes on.

[Imajerk17]

I hope this works out for you man, but you are getting way, WAY ahead of yourself here.

 

HOW did you ascertain all this stuff about her lifestyle and values, for one thing. Nevermind the fact that chemistry can only be observed when you are actually in each other's presence.

 

At any rate, the following rule still applies. It's not really real until you both meet IN PERSON and you both agree to the SECOND date.

[loveweary11]

You're gonna do a LDR? How did you meet her?

 

No. No LDR. Nobody can resist Miami when it's snowing. If it works out, we'll travel, figure plans out together.

 

Too early stage to know what will happen at this point.

[menyou]

Ahh, young love. Everything sounds perfect. Go in with zero expectations.

[Ruby Slippers]

Arms and legs inside, kids! It's time for another krrrazy ride on the glittering Loveweary train to Neverland! Toot toot!

[RoseVille]

Did your profile or any of your communications suggest that you're looking for a "generous" relationship, or that you'd like to be her sugar daddy, as with other profiles you use?

 

How old is she?

[RoseVille]

No. No LDR. Nobody can resist Miami when it's snowing. If it works out, we'll travel, figure plans out together.

 

Have you actually talked about this? She's willing to leave Boston to travel to Miami with you?

 

Too early stage to know what will happen at this point.

 

Right, which is why the above is a little strange.

[BlueIris]

Hey sweetie. Nice to hear from you again. Your positivity is truly uplifting.

 

You seem to have misread something somewhere.

 

I drink here and there socially to hang out with others. I didnt drink or smoke anything while married. Been partying to pass the time between good things.

 

Now I'll be pair bonding again if it works out and leaving all of that time filler behind.

 

Aw, Sugarbunny, it’s great to see you too.

Prevarication and denial are not positivity.

Authenticity and integrity take you to good stuff- a very positive message.

You won’t smash into so many walls when reality replaces dreams and fantasies.

You’re cycling faster than a bike messenger.

[ZA Dater]

Feel free to consolidate my last couple threads here, mods. Attempting to keep the discussions out of other threads such as the Tinder thread.

 

Well, folks, it has happened.

 

I have met the woman of my dreams. We haven't met in person yet, but have been talking non stop. I'm going to see her in Boston this weekend.

 

She is younger, but amazingly mature.

 

She is into just about everything I'm into. She is a healthy food nut, doesn't drink or smoke, loves exercise and long, long walks, is free to travel.

 

She's in amazing shape, she's beautiful. Not that exact physical type I have bedn looking for. Still petite and muscular, but lighter brown coloring.

 

She's got a unique coloring. She's sick of all the garbage out there and had all the same complaints I do about the dating world.

 

She is (as far as i can tell) very, very sweet and nice inside.

 

Very much looking forward to going to see her this weekend.

 

I finally found diamond in the rock pile. Just need to bring it in for GIA certification now.

 

I am sending you the very best wishes form the bottom of Africa. Meeting someone who ticks off all your boxes is an incredible feeling.

 

 

Genuinely hope it goes well.

[loveweary11]

Did your profile or any of your communications suggest that you're looking for a "generous" relationship, or that you'd like to be her sugar daddy, as with other profiles you use?

 

How old is she?

 

Nope. Came in a different way.

 

Old enough for you to be her grandmother.

[loveweary11]

I hope this works out for you man, but you are getting way, WAY ahead of yourself here.

 

HOW did you ascertain all this stuff about her lifestyle and values, for one thing. Nevermind the fact that chemistry can only be observed when you are actually in each other's presence.

 

At any rate, the following rule still applies. It's not really real until you both meet IN PERSON and you both agree to the SECOND date.

 

Exactly. We have the second date this weekend.

[loveweary11]

You’re cycling faster than a bike messenger.

 

But schnookums... the rock pile was huge.

 

It's not so much cycling as a full blown mining operation.

 

I'm mining like a 49er, not cycling like Lance Armstrong.

 

Have you considered we could write old school rap lyrics together with these analogies?

[xxoo]

Exactly. We have the second date this weekend.

 

How did the first date go?

[katiegrl]

How did the first date go?

 

That's what I'm wondering too.

 

 

LW, your first post (which you posted today) says:

 

 

>>I have met the woman of my dreams. We haven't met in person yet, but have been talking non stop. I'm going to see her in Boston this weekend.

 

But now you're saying you have your second date this weekend? How is this possible?

[RoseVille]

Old enough for you to be her grandmother.

 

So she's 11-13?

[MidwestUSA]

 

 

She's got a unique coloring.

 

Is she fawn? Or brindle maybe? My favorite is roan, but blue Merle runs a close second.

 

Will you post pics soon? I'd like to see how she compares to my Australian cattle dog.

 

Don't forget to check her gait. And you may need X-rays to rule out hip dysplasia. Too much inbreeding will do that. Good luck!

[Heatherknows]

So she's 11-13?

 

I'm hoping she's at least 21.

 

I have to say I do find LW's threads entertaining. I sort of hope it doesn't work out with this one so I can hear about the next one....

 

 

(JK)

[RoseVille]

Is she fawn? Or brindle maybe? My favorite is roan, but blue Merle runs a close second.

 

Will you post pics soon? I'd like to see how she compares to my Australian cattle dog.

 

Don't forget to check her gait. And you may need X-rays to rule out hip dysplasia. Too much inbreeding will do that. Good luck!

 

The lighter brown coloring mentioned in the OP does sound like fawn. And thankfully petite and muscular does come in that coat for some breeds, like chihuahuas, French Bulldogs, MinPins.

[RoseVille]

I'm hoping she's at least 21.

 

It's not physically possible for me to be a grandparent to anyone older than 14/15, assuming a very young first date of menstruation and immediate pregnancy thereafter.

[MidwestUSA]

The lighter brown coloring mentioned in the OP does sound like fawn. And thankfully petite and muscular does come in that coat for some breeds, like chihuahuas, French Bulldogs, MinPins.

 

Actually, I think my cattle dog has some boxer in her. She's got a muscular rear end on her that goes for days, if you know what I mean. She's fawn and cream ticked, just gorgeous.

 

I truly thought she was one of a kind, and am wondering if OP is going to get as lucky as I did. . He can hope, right?