grokcahsevol Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 So I been NC for about 2 months now with my ex of 9 years. Her mom just texted me saying hope all is well and told me she came across my protein supplements as she was cleaning the kitchen and also wanted to know if I wanted my bike back I don't know if I should answer her or not... or just tell her not to worry about it and to give it away? When I did get everything from my ex, I did forget ONE thing that I really wanted but it would involve me going to their house and unhooking it. This thing costed me $600 The bike and the supplements I don't care for as I already got new ones How should I go about this? Thanks
Chi townD Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 You could text the mom and say to throw the supplements away and she can donate the bike to Good Will. You're not really breaking NC if you're concluding official business from the relationship. You're just tying up loose ends. So, go ahead and tie up that end.
aloneinaz Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 Where's the bike at? Her Mom's place? If so, ask when you can pick it up. It's worth too much $ to simply write it off. That's silly. If you get it from her, just be cordial, friendly and keep the chit chat to a minimum cause you're in a hurry. 3
mightycpa Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 Came across my protein supplements !! Any chance she's hitting on you? Do you have a Jerry Springer thing going on there? Anyway, I'd arrange to go over for the $600 item when your ex isn't around. Maybe the mom will make you lunch or something. 1
AIJ Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 If you want the stuff back, just be straight up with her mum and tell her you'd like them back and you'd like to arrange a time to collect such things when your ex isn't around. I'm sure she will understand you don't wish to see your ex.. 1
Author grokcahsevol Posted August 19, 2015 Author Posted August 19, 2015 !! Any chance she's hitting on you? Do you have a Jerry Springer thing going on there? Funny you mention that.. she has banter and flirted with me many times Anyway I decided not to get any of the supplements or bike. However, she did tell me to feel free to say hi sometime so I'll ask about the other expensive item some other time. I'd have to personally go get this myself as they wont be able to take it off. Maybe I'll do it when she starts her semester, but part of me doesn't want to go to her place. (She lived with her mom and gma) and we got quite a history there.
NopeNah Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 **offensive*** Have to leave this here for you!
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