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Super busy tinder girl... taking it slow or uninterested? Can't tell... indecision...

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Met a very attractive woman through tinder. The first date went well. She's my type which is smart, driven, and vain. I immediately asked for a second one the next day and we got dinner the following Monday. Things went well, maybe not as great as first date, but nothing I can see that was too terrible- except she maybe vainer than I originally thought after further conversation...

Flashforward to the end of the date... walking her to uber and I try to snag a goodbye kiss and she seemed reluctant, and I then tried to get her to let me know when we could hang out after she get back from vacation this week, and she said " I might be very busy," as she got into her uber.

Now, under most normal circumstances that would be bad sign/deal killer- however- she does work 15 hour days and weekends, all she talks about is how it's burning her out, and me meeting up with her originally was contingent on her crazy work schedule. I'm also not used to women who "take it slow," so that is also throwing me- which I can tell she certainly is.

Should I continue to push to see her when she gets back this weekend? or backoff and see how she reacts?

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Met a very attractive woman through tinder. The first date went well. She's my type which is smart, driven, and vain. I immediately asked for a second one the next day and we got dinner the following Monday. Things went well, maybe not as great as first date, but nothing I can see that was too terrible- except she maybe vainer than I originally thought after further conversation...

Flashforward to the end of the date... walking her to uber and I try to snag a goodbye kiss and she seemed reluctant, and I then tried to get her to let me know when we could hang out after she get back from vacation this week, and she said " I might be very busy," as she got into her uber.

Now, under most normal circumstances that would be bad sign/deal killer- however- she does work 15 hour days and weekends, all she talks about is how it's burning her out, and me meeting up with her originally was contingent on her crazy work schedule. I'm also not used to women who "take it slow," so that is also throwing me- which I can tell she certainly is.

Should I continue to push to see her when she gets back this weekend? or backoff and see how she reacts?

 

She's not into you. Full stop.

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martaldn Established Member

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she was not that busy to meet you for 2 times in less than 2 weeks and then.. out of the sudden she got busy?

hum. back off and date other people.

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smackie9 Established Member

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Busy, I don't know, maybe, I'll get back to you = not interested.

 

*Her attractiveness is overshadowing the fact she is not into you.

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have a beer and next ( or move on )

 

you cant change her mind .... its better to have enjoyed the time that you had w/ her in the past and it time to move on forward ( dislike to say it =0/ )

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idiota87 New Member

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thanks guys, I have to agree just wanted to make sure I wasn't crazy. This girl truly is busy so it is throwing me plus the fact she's a bit on the conservative side.

 

I guess I'll put the ball in her court if she reaches out again great, if not gotta move on.

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