912brian24 Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 My ex and I have been no contact expect for a couple of times for almost 3 weeks. I'm at the house and I get a knock on the door and its my ex and her two kids which are cool little people on the golf cart in my yard. She only lives a couple of streets over which blows for sure! She said her son wanted to stop and say hey so we chatted and keep it kinda lite. I know she wouldn't have stopped unless she wanted to see me too! What do y'all guys think?
mightycpa Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 My ex and I have been no contact expect for a couple of times for almost 3 weeks. I'm at the house and I get a knock on the door and its my ex and her two kids which are cool little people on the golf cart in my yard. She only lives a couple of streets over which blows for sure! She said her son wanted to stop and say hey so we chatted and keep it kinda lite. I know she wouldn't have stopped unless she wanted to see me too! What do y'all guys think?I think you're weak, and you're going to see her and see her and see her until she decides not to see you any more, and then you'll visit us to ask whether or not you should contact her. Because you could have been direct right then and there, and told her the truth - that it is better for her kids if she stays away so that she doesn't drag this out. But you didn't.
JewelD Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 My ex and I have been no contact expect for a couple of times for almost 3 weeks. I'm at the house and I get a knock on the door and its my ex and her two kids which are cool little people on the golf cart in my yard. She only lives a couple of streets over which blows for sure! She said her son wanted to stop and say hey so we chatted and keep it kinda lite. I know she wouldn't have stopped unless she wanted to see me too! What do y'all guys think? I think she wanted to see you and used the kids as an excuse. How do you feel about her?
Author 912brian24 Posted August 19, 2015 Author Posted August 19, 2015 I think she wanted to see you and used the kids as an excuse. How do you feel about her? She's a recently divorced woman who I dated for about 5 months she's a great girl but just at a different point in her life then mine and I respect that.we really shared a connection and it was great but I guess that right guy wrong time type of deal!
Author 912brian24 Posted August 19, 2015 Author Posted August 19, 2015 I think you're weak, and you're going to see her and see her and see her until she decides not to see you any more, and then you'll visit us to ask whether or not you should contact her. Because you could have been direct right then and there, and told her the truth - that it is better for her kids if she stays away so that she doesn't drag this out. But you didn't. No denying that!!!
aloneinaz Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 Hum... I'm see a emotional rollercoaster ride for you and your mental health in your future...
Author 912brian24 Posted August 19, 2015 Author Posted August 19, 2015 Hum... I'm see a emotional rollercoaster ride for you and your mental health in your future... Every time I see your name I know some truth is coming! I see that same outcome!
SoThatHappened Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 (edited) She sees you as a boy toy and probably has some other interpersonal issues. How's my aim? Edited August 19, 2015 by SoThatHappened
aloneinaz Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 Every time I see your name I know some truth is coming! I see that same outcome! HAHA! You've been around here. You know how this record plays and the record is scratched badly.. For you to EVEN consider going out w/her again after incurring a break up after 5 months would be crazy. We've all done it and all had the same horrible outcome. It only extends the drama, emotional BS and of course, the same poor outcome. You know you'll be better off not buying that same swamp land again and ride through staying broken up. Start dating again and find someone new that you're compatible with. Remember, this country is filled (50% divorce rate) with divorced women w/2.5 kids, mini-van, dog, cat and pet fish, that have come out of bad marriages. They want to find someone new as well. Keep searching and don't settle for someone you don't fit with. 1
Chi townD Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 I would write it off as a one time thing. Maybe the kid DID want to see you. She knew you're a good guy that treated her kids right. It's only natural that they would miss you as well. Perhaps she thought that she shouldn't "punish" the kid for her decisions and thought a quick visit wouldn't hurt. I would write it off as an isolated incident. But, if it happens again....then I would question it. Or if she calls you to thank you for being nice and understanding to her kid.
NopeNah Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 This will blow up in your face when you have a new chick over for dinner. Nip it!
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