erklat Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 Absolutely nothing to be gained by responding to her and much to be lost. 3
movingonnow1 Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 I say don't respond. Just because I remember your story, and I think all she wants is attention. She hasn't changed one bit. That text was pointless, and I would be extremly skeptical if her in particular. I would also be very careful about entering into any dialogue with her. I tend to agree with BC1980's thinking here. She is wasting his time again and I think wanted to rock the boat one last time before she left for good. I think her ego is still hurting from the fact he was able to cut her off every time with such ease after she tried to manipulate him and play games. He took the break up like a man and it shocked her because she thought she was leaving a boy. I think the best dialogue here is no dialogue.
Author lauri Posted August 19, 2015 Author Posted August 19, 2015 Thanks everyone for your responses. This has helped me significantly. I'm still a bit torn up inside over this and that is most defiantly due to the finality of her message. Truth is, what difference does it make she is leaving? It's not like we were going to talk or see each other anymore. Had she never spoke to me again or seen me - I don't think I would have cared. But the fact she reached out to me and let me know that this is going to happen...well...that's a difficult thing to process for some reason. I'm not even sure if I am making sense. I still have not responded to her message and I think I am going to leave it that way. It is truly sad that someone I used to hold so dearly / do anything for..is someone I won't even say good bye to when they are leaving forever. To be honest, if you know some of my story, she played a lot of games and clearly had lost interest in me. Maybe this is for the best...this will end forever now. Maybe this is a sign I haven't truly let her go and now is the moment for me to do it. 1
movingonnow1 Posted August 20, 2015 Posted August 20, 2015 Thanks everyone for your responses. This has helped me significantly. I'm still a bit torn up inside over this and that is most defiantly due to the finality of her message. Truth is, what difference does it make she is leaving? It's not like we were going to talk or see each other anymore. Had she never spoke to me again or seen me - I don't think I would have cared. But the fact she reached out to me and let me know that this is going to happen...well...that's a difficult thing to process for some reason. I'm not even sure if I am making sense. I still have not responded to her message and I think I am going to leave it that way. It is truly sad that someone I used to hold so dearly / do anything for..is someone I won't even say good bye to when they are leaving forever. To be honest, if you know some of my story, she played a lot of games and clearly had lost interest in me. Maybe this is for the best...this will end forever now. Maybe this is a sign I haven't truly let her go and now is the moment for me to do it. I guess it is a lot easier from my end to say "forget it" but I can see where you are coming from. I think you've made the right choice not messaging her back.
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