dp_322 Posted August 18, 2015 Posted August 18, 2015 She tries to call me at least once a week since our BU. Two times more than a week passed. This time I thought she got my point, 15 days without any attempt to my knowledge. Yesterday she signed the divorce papers. She tried to call me around 10 times. She texted me a heart. What the hell is wrong with her? I don't know what she wanted since the text was only a heart. I will sign the papers tomorrow. This is hard. I hate myself for still loving her, after all she put me through. What the hell is wrong with her and what the hell does she want? Why can't she just enjoy her new boyfriend and leave me the hell alone?!!? Thanks for letting me vent!
Gus Grimly Posted August 18, 2015 Posted August 18, 2015 Most cell providers offer options to block in the account section of their site. You can block all texts and phone numbers easily. I'd start with that then continue the block fest with social media and e-mail addys. 1
LeslieKnope Posted August 18, 2015 Posted August 18, 2015 Do what Gus says. Presumably, if any further discussion needs to be had, it can be through lawyers.
Author dp_322 Posted August 18, 2015 Author Posted August 18, 2015 I need to check my provider if this service is availabe in my country. I never heard of this here. I know she wants to talk, nothing regarding any legal issues or disbutes. But I have no idea about what nor do I have anything to talk to her about. And a heart text doesn't tell me anything. I have a friend that I have used as a proxy so to speak, regarding anything and all matters. So there's nothing regarding documents or stuff.
LeslieKnope Posted August 18, 2015 Posted August 18, 2015 I need to check my provider if this service is availabe in my country. I never heard of this here. I know she wants to talk, nothing regarding any legal issues or disbutes. But I have no idea about what nor do I have anything to talk to her about. And a heart text doesn't tell me anything. I have a friend that I have used as a proxy so to speak, regarding anything and all matters. So there's nothing regarding documents or stuff. You may not even have to seek out your mobile company. I have an iphone that can block whomever I want, regardless of provider. You pick 'info' next to the number that called (whether you have her still saved in your contact list or not), scroll to the bottom and select 'Block this Caller'. You then won't receive any communication from that number anymore. I don't even think the texter can tell you've blocked them through iphone! Anyway, check your phone's capabilities. I've kept a couple of weasels out of my life that way.
Author dp_322 Posted August 19, 2015 Author Posted August 19, 2015 I tried that on my phone. It just doesn't ring or peep when I get text. But it still show missed calls and text goes through. I signed the papers. On the documents she is demanding a divorce because I was unfaithful! WTF?!?!? Now I'm very angry. I denied and demanded a divorce due to her being unfaithful. I'm not signing offical documents with false accudations!
Author dp_322 Posted August 19, 2015 Author Posted August 19, 2015 My cell provider doesn't offer this service. Guess I'm gonna need a new cell phone. I have already blocked her and her friends on social media. Then I went a step further and deleted my accounts. Only thing I can do for now is keeping my cell off I guess. I also think I might be getting addicted to the drama, or have been. I hate to admit it but getting these texts kind of warms my heart the day I get them. The next day I get mad at her and then I'm okay for a few days. Then if I don't get my fix within a week I start to miss her. It's stupid and all I know. How can I stop feeling this way? Oh man I feel dumb:(
Gus Grimly Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 I hate to admit it but getting these texts kind of warms my heart the day I get them. Oh no, that's not good. You're never gonna get through this if you keep getting those texts. Is it possible to change your number? Another possible alternative is to purchase an app for your phone. Like "Mr. Number-Block" or "Call Control" if you have an Android phone. I'm sure there are equivalent Apps for others phones. You should check it out and get your NC intact.
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