circlesinfinity Posted August 18, 2015 Posted August 18, 2015 There is this guy I gave my phone number to along time ago and he only texted me one time. So afterward, I left him alone and when I saw him at a club that I frequent, I avoided him. It was because he would follow me and have his friends "indirectly follow" me while dancing too. After a while, I stopped going to that club. There is a grocery store that I have to go to almost everyday. So he goes there too...I started to see him there more and more frequently, around the times that I shop. If he can't even pick up the phone, why is he being weird? He even followed my mom around the store (he doesn't even work there) because he has seen her with me before...wtf!!!
LostOne1 Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 There is this guy I gave my phone number to along time ago and he only texted me one time. So afterward, I left him alone and when I saw him at a club that I frequent, I avoided him. It was because he would follow me and have his friends "indirectly follow" me while dancing too. After a while, I stopped going to that club. There is a grocery store that I have to go to almost everyday. So he goes there too...I started to see him there more and more frequently, around the times that I shop. If he can't even pick up the phone, why is he being weird? He even followed my mom around the store (he doesn't even work there) because he has seen her with me before...wtf!!! Either he is super shy... or he's a douche..... I sense a creepy dude? 2
Author circlesinfinity Posted August 19, 2015 Author Posted August 19, 2015 Either he is super shy... or he's a douche..... I sense a creepy dude? I don't know. It is kind of creepy.
Author circlesinfinity Posted August 24, 2015 Author Posted August 24, 2015 Hello everyone Can I please get more advice? I am really down about this situation and could use the help. Thanks
truthtripper Posted August 24, 2015 Posted August 24, 2015 There's no point waiting for him to pick up the phone. If you feel he's a threat call the police.
Author circlesinfinity Posted August 31, 2015 Author Posted August 31, 2015 There's no point waiting for him to pick up the phone. If you feel he's a threat call the police. I haven't seen him in a while...and ok, thank you.
Author circlesinfinity Posted April 21, 2016 Author Posted April 21, 2016 UPDATE: I didn't want to create a new thread but he contacted me two days ago on facebook. He said he saw me walking somewhere but didn't say hi because he wasn't 100% sure it was me. The facebook messages were kind of brief. I finally came out and asked why he suddenly contacted (I guess he forgot about me getting his number, lol). He said seeing me and because I always seemed like a chill person, is what made him want to contact me. He is making it seem like I hurt his feelings as if I'm supposed to be "chill" after he just basically "ghosted" me!!!!! How is a person supposed to be on good terms with you when you ignored their texts?!
deckard11 Posted April 21, 2016 Posted April 21, 2016 Just ignore him all together. Problem solved. 1
Author circlesinfinity Posted April 21, 2016 Author Posted April 21, 2016 Just ignore him all together. Problem solved. You don't have to be rude but thank you for your reply.
todreaminblue Posted April 21, 2016 Posted April 21, 2016 i feel you could be making a mountain out of a mole hill...this guy ghosted you as you say, but then "seems to" follows you at a shopping centre and even your mum too....maybe he lives in the same area and the shopping centre is local to him.....for all you know it could be gods hand that makes him frequent there the same time you are....frequently....stranger miracles happen every day..... honestly why dont you ask him why he never got back to you...and if you genuinely like the guy ...hang out and get to know him better before you make a judgement on him being creepy or very well likely.....he may not be......creepy at all....deb 3
Author circlesinfinity Posted April 22, 2016 Author Posted April 22, 2016 i feel you could be making a mountain out of a mole hill...this guy ghosted you as you say, but then "seems to" follows you at a shopping centre and even your mum too....maybe he lives in the same area and the shopping centre is local to him.....for all you know it could be gods hand that makes him frequent there the same time you are....frequently....stranger miracles happen every day..... honestly why dont you ask him why he never got back to you...and if you genuinely like the guy ...hang out and get to know him better before you make a judgement on him being creepy or very well likely.....he may not be......creepy at all....deb You're right, he just said we should hang out also if I was still lived in the same area as him. It looks like I will be asking this in person, lol! Thanks for your reply 1
Author circlesinfinity Posted June 1, 2016 Author Posted June 1, 2016 i feel you could be making a mountain out of a mole hill...this guy ghosted you as you say, but then "seems to" follows you at a shopping centre and even your mum too....maybe he lives in the same area and the shopping centre is local to him.....for all you know it could be gods hand that makes him frequent there the same time you are....frequently....stranger miracles happen every day..... honestly why dont you ask him why he never got back to you...and if you genuinely like the guy ...hang out and get to know him better before you make a judgement on him being creepy or very well likely.....he may not be......creepy at all....deb ...just an update he completely tip-toed around my question. I never saw him in person but he wanted to visit me at my house, lol. I just cut him off...aw well, moving on
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