smackie9 Posted August 18, 2015 Posted August 18, 2015 Well I hope you are with someone, because a guy that goes out alone to hookup is a loser....well looked at as a lonely loser. Find yourself a wing man. 4
Author pjm123 Posted August 18, 2015 Author Posted August 18, 2015 Ok how do u find a wingman if none of ur friends like to pickup women???
Satu Posted August 18, 2015 Posted August 18, 2015 Ok how do u find a wingman if none of ur friends like to pickup women??? Do you really think that such a thing is a viable option? Find a wingman? What a strange idea...
smackie9 Posted August 18, 2015 Posted August 18, 2015 Make friends with an aggressive chick who doesn't find you dateable but likes to party or find new friends that have hormones. 4
Author pjm123 Posted August 18, 2015 Author Posted August 18, 2015 Ok what do i tellguy at bar i want to wingman wit??
abby_tx Posted August 18, 2015 Posted August 18, 2015 Ok what do i tellguy at bar i want to wingman wit?? hahahahaha. So you're going to a bar to pick up a man to pick up a woman. Why not just sit at the bar and lie. Say you're waiting for a friend to show up. If he doesn't show up (which he won't because he doesn't exist-at least not in this case) maybe they'll feel sorry for you and let you join their conversation. 2
Jj66 Posted August 18, 2015 Posted August 18, 2015 All you need is a friend who is willing to help you. The wingman or wingwoman doesn't have to be there to pick up anyone. They are just there to make you look less like a douchebag. When I did this a several years ago my wingman was in a committed relationship. His only job was to talk to the woman's friend if necessary. He never picked anyone up. Just made conversation.
fitnessfan365 Posted August 18, 2015 Posted August 18, 2015 Well I hope you are with someone, because a guy that goes out alone to hookup is a loser....well looked at as a lonely loser. Find yourself a wing man. I usually like your posts smackie. But you're way off base on this one. 1
joseb Posted August 18, 2015 Posted August 18, 2015 I usually like your posts smackie. But you're way off base on this one. Yeah agreed. Nothing wrong with going out on your own. Shows some balls IMHO. Most people are too afraid. 3
joseb Posted August 18, 2015 Posted August 18, 2015 Im serious any help? You have three choices. Say you are here alone. Not everyone gets that. For example, smackie above, and it might give a bad impression. But if you are really confident you might pull it off. Say you are waiting for a friend, he's running late, or your friend is talking to someone else, or left early and you felt like staying out. Find someone to go out with- how can you do that? Well, ask friends. Join a meetup. Ask someone in the bar to help you out. Or do a google search for 'wingman' in your area. Personally I either go out with a friend/friends, or I talk to people a lot if I'm out alone. It rarely looks like I'm alone.
PinkElephants Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 I see that the two people who disagree with smackie's opinion of men alone in bars are men. As a woman, I have to agree with her. A lone guy roaming a bar is usually considered an alcoholic, a cheater, or a weirdo. True, some guys can pull it off; I have a few friends who are large personalities that make friends wherever they go and they regularly go to bars alone but mostly it conjures up an image of the line of lonely men sitting silently at a hotel bar. Your best wingman is a woman. Women are competitive; the object of your affection will want to "win" against your friend. A freshly divorced friend of mine used to take me out for drinks so he could pick up cougars. Plus, women are sometimes more receptive to other women then to men. Even when I was single I'd brush men off but always had time to discuss shoes with the ladies.
phineas Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 Yeah agreed. Nothing wrong with going out on your own. Shows some balls IMHO. Most people are too afraid. yep. The only times I actually managed to pick up a woman at a bar was when I went out alone to watch game or sit at the bar & eat. During the week. I've never gone out alone on the weekend though because I usually have something to do.
Sweet Workaholic Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 Yeah agreed. Nothing wrong with going out on your own. Shows some balls IMHO. Most people are too afraid. I've had lots of luck at bars solo. Wingman, shmingman. If you feel you have to say something say "my regular pal is working late" or "I was going to meet some folks from work but they had to bail." I always said "Myself." Seemed to work ok. Just act confident about it.
Woggle Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 I have gotten tons of dates alone when I was single.
smackie9 Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 I usually like your posts smackie. But you're way off base on this one. No I'm not. It's not just how I perceive someone who goes to the bar alone to pick up women, my GFs have said the same thing.....we have gotten a sense of desperation with these fellas. BUT I'm not saying everyone feels the same way. I get a feeling the OP has either had negative results from saying he's alone, or this gives him the same impression say if a girl was hanging out alone at a bar trying to meet someone.
usernametaken Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 No I'm not. It's not just how I perceive someone who goes to the bar alone to pick up women, my GFs have said the same thing.....we have gotten a sense of desperation with these fellas. BUT I'm not saying everyone feels the same way. I get a feeling the OP has either had negative results from saying he's alone, or this gives him the same impression say if a girl was hanging out alone at a bar trying to meet someone. I'll agree that a guy who goes to bar for the specific purpose of picking up women is probably a creepster. But, there's nothing wrong with taking a book to the bar and having a drink. And if you're traveling for work a lot, it's just what you do! (or I did. but I'm a girl who likes to talk to female bartenders when I'm feeling socially isolated. so) But if you're asking "how I meet wingwoman to help sex woman" - yeah, that's giving off a really predatory/caveman vibe.
Vercetti Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 Always went out alone, like everyone I'm there with everyone. Not hard to chat up randoms about nothing. Not hard to have a few familur faces here and there. Honestly, most people in bars and clubs are rather whatever anyway...nothing better to do then drink in public.....Better be real careful not to give a bad impression. Before any hobby drunks jump me, it's a mind game. Why should someone be freaked out chatting wiith people that have nothing better to do after midnight. The real problem is, not running into any barflys clubkids worth spending time sober with. Better question would be, where and how to flirt with sober girls in the day time
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