katiegrl Posted August 20, 2015 Posted August 20, 2015 I have never encountered a single person online who, if one reads all of their posts, hasn't judged at least once. They just sometimes choose not to call it judgement Yes it's called having opinions......positive, negative and everything in between.
Male Posted August 20, 2015 Posted August 20, 2015 There are many beautiful and single women out there Not in Ohio theres not! 1
autumnnight Posted August 20, 2015 Posted August 20, 2015 Yes it's called having opinions......positive, negative and everything in between. So as long as I call what I think of someone an opinion, I am not judging?
katiegrl Posted August 20, 2015 Posted August 20, 2015 (edited) So as long as I call what I think of someone an opinion, I am not judging? Of course! If a poster starts ranting about her shytty boyfriend, you are allowed to think he's a douchebag, that's your opinion. To me that's not judging, just opining. Hell, I am one of the most opinionated people on this board! But I only base that opinion on the limited amount of info given here. I won't judge him (the shytty boyfriend) because I have not heard HIS side. In reality he could be a great guy and the person posting could be neurotic mess.... for all we know. To me, I can't judge until I have all the facts on any particular situation... from all sides like they do in a court of law. The judge and jury, after hearing ALL the facts, renders a "judgment." I work in legal so this is how my mind works....same with my dad (who taught me these values), he was an attorney. Same with a person in an abusive RL. My opinion of that RL would be it's horrible....but I can't judge it (or the couple) even though my opinion of the abusive person (with the limited amount of info I have) would be he/she is a **** . But seriously, how can I (or anyone) make a judgment about it without having ALL the info from both sides, from all sides? Plus like I said before, I have also been in my fair share of crazy relationships too...so who am I to judge it. I had my own reasons for staying, no one forced me. And who knows, this may sound nuts but some people thrive on dysfunction and some women (and men) associate abuse with love even.... or perhaps they're masochistic....some couples even get off on the fighting (physical and verbal). I actually knew a couple like that. It's wrong, in my OPINION, buy hey to each his own, right? None of my business. I don't know if this is making any sense....but that's my take on it anyway. Edited August 20, 2015 by katiegrl 1
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