WTF just happened?!

[Corduroy]

These past few weeks I've been thinking about an ex, who've i haven't seen in years. Things ended quite bad between us and she never spoke to me again.

 

Just last week, I met up with my cousin and she introduced me to her friends. Her friends turned out to be friends with my ex.

 

This morning, first thing I do is go on Instagram, But the thing is its not my page I'm logged into.... its my ex's! I see all these pictures of her & the guy she left me for, looks like they're married & happy. I panicked and logged off immediately.

 

I don't know how this happened or who to tell. I don't know her password, and her profile is private. Its crazy that I've been thinking about her and everything these past few weeks. Deep down I still do love her & I've hadn't have luck finding anyone new because of it. IDK, is God trying to tell me something?!

[Chi townD]

These past few weeks I've been thinking about an ex, who've i haven't seen in years. Things ended quite bad between us and she never spoke to me again.

 

Just last week, I met up with my cousin and she introduced me to her friends. Her friends turned out to be friends with my ex.

 

This morning, first thing I do is go on Instagram, But the thing is its not my page I'm logged into.... its my ex's! I see all these pictures of her & the guy she left me for, looks like they're married & happy. I panicked and logged off immediately.

 

I don't know how this happened or who to tell. I don't know her password, and her profile is private. Its crazy that I've been thinking about her and everything these past few weeks. Deep down I still do love her & I've hadn't have luck finding anyone new because of it. IDK, is God trying to tell me something?!

 

Yeah, it's time to move on! Time to start living YOUR LIFE! It's time to go exploring and seeing what's out there! It's time to focus on YOU and start doing fun things that is going to make YOU happy.

[Corduroy]

Yeah, it's time to move on! Time to start living YOUR LIFE! It's time to go exploring and seeing what's out there! It's time to focus on YOU and start doing fun things that is going to make YOU happy.

 

Easier said than done, it just added to my depression.

[Chi townD]

Easier said than done, it just added to my depression.

 

 

I never said it was easy. But, in a way it is! YOU have to find the motivation to make positive changes in your life. I can only do so much, but you have to take the first steps.

 

 

Set yourself up with short term and long term goals. Some positive changes you can do are pretty easy. Like, getting a new hairstyle. Something people are going to notice and like. Then, get a new wardrobe. If you're a jeans and t-shirt kind of guy, you need to turn into a designer jeans, button down shirt and dress shoes kind of guy. Be styling 24/7. You want people saying, "DAMN DUDE! Looking sharp!" This is going to help your self esteem!

 

 

Then, get to the gym! Go everyday and start pushing weight and running your ass off on the treadmill. If you eat right and get plenty of sleep, then you'll be working towards that ripped and rock hard bod that girls are definitely going to notice! Plus, working out is going to burn off the stress and frustrations. Dude, those are easy short term goals!

 

 

Then, go back to school! If you have a bachelors, then get a masters. You be busy with your studies rather than wondering what the hell she's doing. A better education is only going to open more doors for better financial opportunities. Meaning, that you'll be able to afford that nice townhouse in that kickass neighborhood and you'll be able to afford that nice car that you've always wanted.

 

 

Then, get new hobbies! Start doing things that YOU would enjoy doing. Normally, there are clubs in your with people that have the same shared interest, so JOIN THEM! PUT YOURSELF OUT THERE! So, join a running club or cycling club. A men's soccer league or take dive lessons and become certified.

 

 

Then, travel! Go see the world! If there's a place you've always wanted to see; then make a plan, save your money and GO!!! Nothing is stopping you!

 

 

Look, I just got done reading an article about some dude that plays competitive video games for a living. He's a little buff, obviously he works out. But, someone showed him a picture of this girl blowing up the internet as the hottest weather girl on the planet. She works as a meteorologist at a Mexican News station. So, he took a chance and reached out to her on twitter and she responded! They DM'd for a little bit until she told him to come out there to meet her in person. So, he did. Now, this average dude is dating this gorgeous girl from Mexico. They're now boyfriend and girlfriend. Moral of the story? He took a chance! He put himself out there! And good things can happen if you only try! You never know what could happen! Will it happen everytime? Of course not! You'll get shot down from time to time. But, one thing is for sure, it's NEVER going to happen if you decide NOT to try.

 

 

If you start making these positive then you'll heal a lot faster. And who knows, maybe one day, you're Ex will wake up and go on her instagram and see you standing on a boat after diving the Great Barrier Reef with your arm around your dive partner that happens to be this blonde hair blue eyed Aussie girl that looks fantastic in a wet suit.