harvej Posted August 17, 2015 Posted August 17, 2015 What is the best course if action when a NPD ex girlfriend goes NC after I had to educate her on proper behaviour at a friends memorial? She lacks empathy and made it about herself as she did 2 hours after my mother's funeral. I finally told her that she was improper and lacked filters and she gave me the finger and left 6 weeks ago. Not a word. Dump her as a friend? I reached out and told her I expected an apology at a minimum and got nothing. Seems she can walk away easily with NPD. I assume when she needs narcassistic supply, she will reach out. Would you A. Punt her. B. Write her a letter to suggest meeting to clear the air or C. Run as fast I can away from her? 1
Poppyolive Posted August 17, 2015 Posted August 17, 2015 It seems she doesn't care. I'd leave it. You've said your piece. Your relationship is over. You can't do all the work. Obviously she runs from responsibility. She has a lot of growing to do. Remain in no contact. You'll not get your apology by chasing. 1
Hoosfoos Posted August 17, 2015 Posted August 17, 2015 You'll never get an apology from this kind of person, ever. 2
mightycpa Posted August 18, 2015 Posted August 18, 2015 First A, then C, immediately, in the other direction. 1
BC1980 Posted August 18, 2015 Posted August 18, 2015 If she is a narcissist, the only recourse is NC for life. 2
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