pjm123 Posted August 16, 2015 Posted August 16, 2015 How do i go to bar make friends with dudes to meet women? Wingmaning also how could i take a woman home,?????? Im in chicago for week
LoveRefreshed Posted August 17, 2015 Posted August 17, 2015 Just go to a place where women like to go. Go to a club. Find someone who is attractive and dance with her. Ask her to dance. Buy her a drink afterwards and flirt. If she seems responsive, maybe go for a kiss. If she shuts you down, move on. You need to attempt to make a connection. You can't just go up, shake your dongle and expect any results. Other than that, it's about having realistic expectations. Most women aren't out just to hook up, so that cuts your possibles down a lot. The other 80% aren't going to be attracted to you unless you're some kind of hot foreign stud. These sorts of posts kind of make me loose a little faith in men though. What's the point of it all? To share a night with someone because you're lonely? That I can understand. To put a notch on your bed post, increment your count to prove you're a man? That is insecurity at best. Meaningless sex is meaningless, and I have a feeling you're going to just end up wanking it. Good luck though OP. 1
phineas Posted August 17, 2015 Posted August 17, 2015 tinder. when you get into town Change your profile to say you are in town for the weekend & looking for someone to show you around on your profile. Tinder uses your current location so you will get women near you. datehookup.com, pof, & okcupid. - search for women in that area beforehand & hit them up. If they respond tell them you will be in town for a few days and looking for date. if you are attractive enough or rich enough you will have someone waiting for you when you get into town. 2
phineas Posted August 17, 2015 Posted August 17, 2015 Just go to a place where women like to go. Go to a club. Find someone who is attractive and dance with her. Ask her to dance. Buy her a drink afterwards and flirt. If she seems responsive, maybe go for a kiss. If she shuts you down, move on. You need to attempt to make a connection. You can't just go up, shake your dongle and expect any results. Other than that, it's about having realistic expectations. Most women aren't out just to hook up, so that cuts your possibles down a lot. The other 80% aren't going to be attracted to you unless you're some kind of hot foreign stud. These sorts of posts kind of make me loose a little faith in men though. What's the point of it all? To share a night with someone because you're lonely? That I can understand. To put a notch on your bed post, increment your count to prove you're a man? That is insecurity at best. Meaningless sex is meaningless, and I have a feeling you're going to just end up wanking it. Good luck though OP. I usually try to get laid before I leave for a weekend away. If i'm going to a different city i really try to do something other than hang out in a bar. especially when there are so many other things to do & see.
SycamoreCircle Posted August 17, 2015 Posted August 17, 2015 These sorts of posts kind of make me loose a little faith in men though. What's the point of it all? To share a night with someone because you're lonely? That I can understand. To put a notch on your bed post, increment your count to prove you're a man? That is insecurity at best. Meaningless sex is meaningless, and I have a feeling you're going to just end up wanking it. I disagree with this. You may meet a woman who is fresh out of a relationship and wants to have noncommittal fun with a stranger. I've always felt like the most romantically adventurous episodes in my life have occurred while traveling. You're open to everything around you, you've no timetable, you are interesting because you are outside of any routine. People pick up on this. So, go out. Chat up everyone around you--- men and women. You don't need a wingman. Be interested in other people. When it comes time to talk about yourself, explain your circumstances honestly. If it happens to be a woman you're attracted to, turn on the charm. See where it will get you. Go with few expectations and be surprised. One last bit of advice---guess what is incredibly attractive to people, especially in a big city? A person who has nowhere to be. A person who is available. That is incredibly charming. That is incredibly inviting. Be that person.
joseb Posted August 17, 2015 Posted August 17, 2015 I disagree with this. You may meet a woman who is fresh out of a relationship and wants to have noncommittal fun with a stranger. I've always felt like the most romantically adventurous episodes in my life have occurred while traveling. You're open to everything around you, you've no timetable, you are interesting because you are outside of any routine. People pick up on this. Absolutely agree. Some of my fondest memories and encounters are from situations like these.
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