Trying to cope with breakup

[llgreen85]

I recently broke up after dating my boyfriend for two months. We moved too fast in too months, I acknowledge this. My ex had been cheated on in two previous relationships. He "freaked out" and didn't contact me for a week. I thought something was wrong so I tried to contact his family by asking his ex for a phone number (I know it was stupid, i was so worried). When I finally heard from him, he said he was scared we were moving too fast and that I would leave he and his daughter like his exes did. We fought and I haven't heard from him since. I freaked out, texting him way too much. Finally I asked him to get me my stuff back. He works with several people who know me and could easily get me my stuff. Still no response from him. Then he gets a facebook account (which he told me he absolutely hated facebook) and I see he is in a relationship. Once again, I asked him to give me my things back...no response, and I blocked him on Facebook and have quit trying to communicate with him. The whole situation is confusing to me. My stuff isn't so important it can't be replaced, it's just strange to me he won't even give it to mutual friends. He doesn't even have to see me face to face. I'm trying hard to move on...it's been 30+ days of no contact. I just can't shake my intuition telling me I'll hear from him again. Anyways, sorry I rambled, I've just been having a bad day and needed to vent. Any suggestions to help with coping would be appreciated. Thanks friends.

[BouncingBack]

Hi, Sorry to hear your going through this. Have you had a chance to speak to any of the mutual friends? maybe he's said something to one of them or they might have an idea why he's behaving this way?

[llgreen85]

Our mutual friends that set us up said "we aren't getting involved. Hope y'all can work it out." My other mutual friend that works with my ex said he won't even talk to or look him in the face at work.