QueenDafine Posted August 16, 2015 Posted August 16, 2015 Ok so about 2 years ago I met this guy out of mutual friends and we became inseparable after that. He was pretty much like my best friend for a year until he made a move one week before I was due to move overseas.. it was amazing and honestly I had the best time with him that last week, even though I was devastated we had only just started to get intimate ONE WEEK before I left. After that we continued a long distance relationship, which fell apart after three months. We didn't talk for two months after that, as we decided to have a break because things were getting way too bad. Anyway after we started to talk again, it was even worse; we had huge fights (over text, I don't want to call him yet) and now/after that it's pretty much gone from us telling eachother EVERYTHING, EVERYDAY (even before the break) to us replying with one word or ignoring eachother or just not even bothering to ask how each other's Day was. Now onto the other stuff.. so I'm due to see him in a month, and I haven't seen him for 7 months. We're both competing in a sports event and I originally planned to stay with him a week after but u don't even know about those plans anymore. Anyway he recently messaged one of my best friends, talking about us drinking with him and that and saying he's only coming over to get wasted and all this other stuff about going out. The way he put it though made it sound so bad.. I know hes been drinking alot more lately, going out clubbing and he's been getting into trouble with the police because of his friends. He also kept asking her if I was going to drink, he wouldn't mind getting me drunk, and lastly, if "she doesnt want to drink, it's okay, I'll just drink out of her hole instead". That pissed me off big time. He's never talked to me like that ever before and even though we got really touchy nothing steered to sex and he would never/has never made any ****ty comments to me like that. And the fact that he said that to someone I respect is even worse and makes me feel like what the ****k. It's not even him, his friend was asking one of my other best friends if I'd be up for a three some with him and her or some seedy **** like that. I feel like I'm probably making this a huge deal but it's because I thought he'd be better than that? I don't even know if I want to be around a guy that just wants to drink all the time, wants to just flirt with heaps of girls and then talk about me so disrespectfully. I just don't know what to do because he was literally my best friend, still kind of is and in some ways I wouldn't be able to even let go of him as a friend. On the other side I know he does care about me alot. I just wanna know if he's expecting sex or something close to it. It's not going to happen that's for sure. Oh and the fact that he wants to get me drunk (probably to make me more open to options)for sex, well yeah that's a deal breaker because I'd never talk to him again. I just don't how to interpret this because I don't really know anything until I see him.. .
Omei Posted August 16, 2015 Posted August 16, 2015 Sounds like whatever you guys had is over and hes thinking if yall party hard enough he can try and get a lay out of it with you because of your past its likely he thinks he would have an easier time getting in bed with you rather putting work into someone new, I wouldnt sleep with him OP. 1
casey.lives Posted August 16, 2015 Posted August 16, 2015 he's just testing you to see what you would say. If you said nothing you kinda failed. Being a true friend means speaking your mind, including telling a person to come correct.
xcupid Posted August 16, 2015 Posted August 16, 2015 This guy is bad news. He doesn't care about you even though you think he does. All he wants is sex with you. There is no reason at all why you should want to hang out with him.
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