My crush interrupted a conversation

[Benny2003]

Well things are getting a little more interesting with the female colleague I have had a crush on for 1 year now.

 

Now she has started to interrupt conversations that I am having with other female coworkers. Like today I was in deep conversation with another female work colleague and then my crush walks by and just jumps in with some off the subject comment out of nowhere. For a few seconds my jaw dropped. Alot was going through my mind at the moment but I didn't say anything. I just picked up the conversation where we left off before my crush jumped in and pretended like nothing happened.

 

I don't know why she does this. I don't go and jump into her conversations when she talks to other guys. I'm the one who has a crush on her and I would say I am one who is exercising better manners and class than her.

 

Today was the 2nd time this happened this month.

[almond]

You should show her the 500 threads you've made about her on here - I bet she'll leave you alone after that

[Gloria25]

Well things are getting a little more interesting with the female colleague I have had a crush on for 1 year now.

 

Now she has started to interrupt conversations that I am having with other female coworkers. Like today I was in deep conversation with another female work colleague and then my crush walks by and just jumps in with some off the subject comment out of nowhere. For a few seconds my jaw dropped. Alot was going through my mind at the moment but I didn't say anything. I just picked up the conversation where we left off before my crush jumped in and pretended like nothing happened.

 

I don't know why she does this. I don't go and jump into her conversations when she talks to other guys. I'm the one who has a crush on her and I would say I am one who is exercising better manners and class than her.

 

Today was the 2nd time this happened this month.

 

OH SNAPP!!!

 

YOU, talking to another woman? Wow, that's a first.

 

Maybe your crush interrupted cuz she was like 'WTF/WTH, I gotta check this out'?!?

 

I mean, isn't it your "thing" to hide from women instead of engage them in conversation?

[Benny2003]

OH SNAPP!!!

 

YOU, talking to another woman? Wow, that's a first.

 

Maybe your crush interrupted cuz she was like 'WTF/WTH, I gotta check this out'?!?

 

I mean, isn't it your "thing" to hide from women instead of engage them in conversation?

 

For the record I can easily engage women in deep conversations when I have no romantic interest in them. I am relaxed and comfortable. It is the women that I am too much into who I have trouble talking to.

[Benny2003]

You should show her the 500 threads you've made about her on here - I bet she'll leave you alone after that

 

Hey I have to talk about it somewhere. If I don't feel safe discussing my internal thoughts here then it isn't safe anywhere else. Where else am I going to talk about her? At work with other colleagues or mutual friends or her friends? That's pretty much the alternative to this forum. That would be pretty stupid as there's a good chance anything I say will leak back to her if I talk about this stuff with anyone who is associated with her.

 

I have to pretend that I am under arrest and exercising my right to remain silent and only talk to my lawyers which is hopefully loveshack members. Though I don't know how many of them are good lawyers.

[Gloria25]

For the record I can easily engage women in deep conversations when I have no romantic interest in them. I am relaxed and comfortable. It is the women that I am too much into who I have trouble talking to.

 

I knew that...cuz, that's how I am with guys I'm interested in vs guys I'm not interested in.

 

I'm just messing with ya

[William]

Sorry folks, Saturday evening hydra. Thread closed. Thanks for your input.