westernxer Posted May 14, 2005 Posted May 14, 2005 Originally posted by Marshbear ask your mom for advice on dating women. They will never give you the correct slant on what a women really wants in dating. Too true. My mom happens to be the exception, though. She actually saved my ass a couple of times when I was younger. Part of it has to do with her Samoan culture... very direct way of speaking and no beating around the bush. What else would you expect from a tiny island?
alphamale Posted May 14, 2005 Posted May 14, 2005 Originally posted by westernxer Part of it has to do with her Samoan culture... very direct way of speaking and no beating around the bush. What else would you expect from a tiny island? what did she tell u to do WESTERNXER? was it to hit your girlfirend over the head with coconuts?
westernxer Posted May 14, 2005 Posted May 14, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale what did she tell u to do WESTERNXER? was it to hit your girlfirend over the head with coconuts? I think she said pineapples were better.
Author dsage111 Posted May 14, 2005 Author Posted May 14, 2005 Well again, the ball is in her court, and in the industry I meet her in, she will have no choice but to see girls around me all the time. Strange huh...be totally true being a professional athlete. I won’t throw other girls being around in her face because she is indecisive; yet hope that her “pre judgment” on me and my intentions, will only open her eyes on what could have been and that I’m not her ex so don’t treat me like I am. When you’re depressed about something or an Ex, anyone that comes around that gives you that smile that might have been lost, is someone you don’t want to let go. Or would that be a rebound?? I’m not going anywhere, but I’m not waiting around for her. We had some great conversation and laughs, and that’s all she will get from me unless she put in more effort then I’m will to give now. Nobody wants to look like an ass before they actually made a move. I’m going to take the advice and let her feel that I’m not putting in the effort she thought I would, (no matter what her email meant), and make her start to hate me to love me. I won’t treat her like an ass just because I’m not getting what I want, as I don’t think thats fair? Question: At no point did I say to her that I wanted to go on a date or pursue her before she wrote me that email about her thoughts? And Sarah12…..this girl is not only amazing looking, but she has to been one of the sharpest and non-pretentious people I have spoken with. Makes me think a little?
westernxer Posted May 14, 2005 Posted May 14, 2005 Originally posted by dsage111 I’m going to take the advice and let her feel that I’m not putting in the effort she thought I would, (no matter what her email meant), and make her start to hate me to love me. I won’t treat her like an ass just because I’m not getting what I want, as I don’t think thats fair? Doesn't matter how she feels... you don't owe her anything. Not even an explanation. Just simply do your own thing. …this girl is not only amazing looking, but she has to been one of the sharpest and non-pretentious people I have spoken with. Doesn't mean a thing unless she wants to be with you. What is she, f.u.c.k.ing Enstein?
layzee Posted June 1, 2005 Posted June 1, 2005 hi nice to meet every1 umm how do i say this there is this gurl i love and i asked her out ok... what she said then was that she loves me also but she wouldnt go out with me at that very moment.the she also added "but hence yes" so can anyneone tell me what this means thank alex.
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