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Ok..brief history. Met this girl online. 4 weeks ago. Shes in LA...me in TX. We started with texts, then to emails, to then phone calls & IMs. We're supposed to see each other for the first time in 7 days.

 

Now. Everything seemed well and dandy. She texts me almost every morning...and sometimes through the day. We IM..and have phone convos. etc etc. Seemed fine.

 

The this morning. I called her...after about 10 mins...she says she's going to eat breakfast and will call me back. OK...no problem. She calls me back 2 hours later. In my head I think it's a tad long..but ok..NP.

 

But in 5 mins..she has another call and she says she'll call back. doesnt call back. After 6 hours she sends me 2 texts.

 

"Hey sorry for not getting back to you earlier, but I knocked out after I got back home from running errands. I'm going out with my friends in a bit so I'll catch up again later, but I just wanted to say hi"

 

Now I think something is odd. But wanted to see what you guys thought? Am I reading too much? or Not a biggie?

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You met her online, just give her a couple of days to see if there is any changes in contacts routine and if she does not want to meet. Don't jump to the conclusion quickly but time will tell. At least she txt you to say "hi." And if she is not interested, you are not missing anything anyway. Just keep looking for other dates. Good luck.

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This isn't a red flag. This is her living her life. You're overthinking this.

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