guild11 Posted August 15, 2015 Posted August 15, 2015 Hello, I been with my GF just over 3 month, she is also my supervisor at work, we are basically seeing each other 7 times a week. During this time I did everything I could for her, I would wake up in 5am to call her 50 times until she wakes up for work while I can sleep until 10 am, She is not spoiled she just have trouble waking up due medical issues. I agreed to compromise and switch from having sex 7 times a week to 2 times a week because its hard for her doing it everyday. Overall I did my best for her in every aspect. She unlike me was behaving other way around, sometimes telling me hurtful stuff and trying to feel me small, she didnt appreciated what she have. I let my self worth down, kept being quiet about it, Today finally I got enough of it, I talked to her told everything that was on my mind. She said that thats the way she is and it wont change. I told her if she is not willing then there is no point to continue, we better split and each of us goes his way. She said "If you really loved me you wouldnt talked like that, good luck to you" I said "good luck to you too" and thats it, I had a sense its not over yet. Few hours later she messaged, she said she is wants to try again. I havent replied, she used to say that she loves me too but maybe its her pride that got hit now? Maybe she is willing to try again because SHE got dumped ? I really love her but I'm suppose to enjoy the relationship and not get emotionally abused. Suggestions ?
WhatYouWantToHear Posted August 15, 2015 Posted August 15, 2015 I really love her but I'm suppose to enjoy the relationship and not get emotionally abused. I know you typed the above sentence, but did you read it? Spend a second or two saying that out loud and really trying to comprehend that sentence. Maybe look in the mirror as you do it. Then, when you decide to go back to her, know that everything that happens to when you do, is because you chose for it to happen to you.
ExpatInItaly Posted August 15, 2015 Posted August 15, 2015 She is a jerk. Jerks make terrible girlfriends. Don't let this jerk back in your life.
Author guild11 Posted August 15, 2015 Author Posted August 15, 2015 I will give you more details of what she said, Once she came to my place, we talked we hugged and we kissed, eventually I did a move on her but she stopped me and said "is that you all want..?" Made it sound that I want her sexually only, I didnt begged for sex nor pushed her. Other time I went to her house and bought all kind of snacks, same stuff that I buy when I chill with my buddies, She joked and asked "where is my chocolate? Did you buy the stuff that you like only?" Later on her mom wanted to put some on the plate and asked me what I want, My GF said "put him everything... He likes it all" If I was a fat slob it could be more reasonable. She also seem to take the stuff I say very personally, one time I didnt have money to go out, I said "maybe we give up on going out tonight? I'm low on cash" She got angry and said she isnt with me because of the money and twisted everything I said. We seem to be incompitable in every way and yet I still love her.
WhatYouWantToHear Posted August 16, 2015 Posted August 16, 2015 Wow. Is that what's passing for emotional abuse now a days? She also seem to take the stuff I say very personally Why yes, Pot, that Kettle is black.
Author guild11 Posted August 16, 2015 Author Posted August 16, 2015 Wow. Is that what's passing for emotional abuse now a days? Why yes, Pot, that Kettle is black. Lol i see what u did there
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