912brian24 Posted August 15, 2015 Posted August 15, 2015 Last night I caved and sent my ex a text!!!! She sent me a text last Sunday and I didn't reply but last night I had that weak moment and next thing I know I'm hitting the send button! Her son started pre-k yesterday so the text said " I know school started today and I hope (sons name) had fun and made some friends! Hope you're doing good" As soon as I hit the send button I was trying to find someway to get it back! Ha!! That's the first contact I've made on my end in over 2 weeks but I know I still shouldn't have!
amaysngrace Posted August 15, 2015 Posted August 15, 2015 Next time send the boy a puppy in a box for a special occasion instead.
casey.lives Posted August 15, 2015 Posted August 15, 2015 it was a nice gesture. when you care, you care..
Learningtowalkagain Posted August 15, 2015 Posted August 15, 2015 Last night I caved and sent my ex a text!!!! She sent me a text last Sunday and I didn't reply but last night I had that weak moment and next thing I know I'm hitting the send button! Her son started pre-k yesterday so the text said " I know school started today and I hope (sons name) had fun and made some friends! Hope you're doing good" As soon as I hit the send button I was trying to find someway to get it back! Ha!! That's the first contact I've made on my end in over 2 weeks but I know I still shouldn't have! Yeah you broke NC, she did first. What did her text say on Sunday? Your text was innocent and shows you're a stand up guy. I wouldn't beat myself up over it. My ex text'd me a week after our break up to wish my daughter a happy birthday. I didn't take it as anything other than her being kind. If you're not over this girl yet, and by your post you're not, stick with NC. If she texts you tell her you think it's best the two of you don't contact each other for the time being. And just an FYI, you were never NC to begin with. Once you delete her phone number, text history, and all contact via social media...then you're NC.
aloneinaz Posted August 15, 2015 Posted August 15, 2015 Last night I caved and sent my ex a text!!!! She sent me a text last Sunday and I didn't reply but last night I had that weak moment and next thing I know I'm hitting the send button! Her son started pre-k yesterday so the text said " I know school started today and I hope (sons name) had fun and made some friends! Hope you're doing good" As soon as I hit the send button I was trying to find someway to get it back! Ha!! That's the first contact I've made on my end in over 2 weeks but I know I still shouldn't have! Ok... let's see here. What were you trying to accomplish by doing this? * Hope she would engage with you and confess how much she misses you and wants you back. * Get her to think about you by sending that text? * Failed staying NC and continue to drag out the break up drama and hold you back from moving on. I think you know that sending this text wasn't about her son. Why it was a nice gesture on your part, you really shouldn't of sent it. With that, you need to make a decision here. Either pick up the phone and call her and let her know you'd like to try again or stick to NC, heal and move on. You guys breaking up already at 5 months doesn't speak to a very good compatibility. It certainly not a good foundation to build on for the future. I've been there where you are. I tried to make a dysfunction R/S work that included a break up, early in. Yea, it didn't get any better and I should of let it die. I could of really prevented months more of emotional BS and drama..
Author 912brian24 Posted August 15, 2015 Author Posted August 15, 2015 (edited) Ok... let's see here. What were you trying to accomplish by doing this? * Hope she would engage with you and confess how much she misses you and wants you back. * Get her to think about you by sending that text? * Failed staying NC and continue to drag out the break up drama and hold you back from moving on. I think you know that sending this text wasn't about her son. Why it was a nice gesture on your part, you really shouldn't of sent it. With that, you need to make a decision here. Either pick up the phone and call her and let her know you'd like to try again or stick to NC, heal and move on. You guys breaking up already at 5 months doesn't speak to a very good compatibility. It certainly not a good foundation to build on for the future. I've been there where you are. I tried to make a dysfunction R/S work that included a break up, early in. Yea, it didn't get any better and I should of let it die. I could of really prevented months more of emotional BS and drama.. **** you're good! Thanks for that brutal truth! She never responded anyways so I know where I stand with her and that's always good to know!! Edited August 15, 2015 by 912brian24 1
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