Chrisychris Posted August 15, 2015 Posted August 15, 2015 I was with my gf a while we are both in our 30s we both had a great thing together. She had not long come out of a long relathionship before i meet her. But we were good really good. She opened up to me about loads and vice versa i once told her about something deep that actully caused me to get upset :/ after this however i noticed change in her she began to distance her self bit by bit. We carried on she then began to be bitchy sometimes and i reacted like a div and jus looked at her as if to say wot u going on like that for. She told me to man up? I kept trying with her and didnt realise i was messing myself up. I confronted her on several occasions and she kept saying she wasnt fully over her ex and need space etc i gave her space but she kept txting and calling? but didnt realise i was becoming a doormat, loosing myself. I started to notice changes in her and when i confronted her i was told im insecure?Then recently caught her in a club with another guy, i wanted to say something but then also realised i was right she was lying to me and thought u are not worth it.she ran off out of guilt. Then spoke to her the next day and she tryed telling me she didnt want a serious relathionship. Ahe had often said she doesnt want someone to love and care for her but someone to look after her? That confused me and still does.I told her wot for before leaving. I having spoke to her since it was only a week ago i feel devastated though i loved her and cant belive she took me for a fool and wasnt honest with me.im trying to get over her but its so tough
ExpatInItaly Posted August 15, 2015 Posted August 15, 2015 I was with my gf a while we are both in our 30s we both had a great thing together. She had not long come out of a long relathionship before i meet her. But we were good really good. She opened up to me about loads and vice versa i once told her about something deep that actully caused me to get upset :/ after this however i noticed change in her she began to distance her self bit by bit. We carried on she then began to be bitchy sometimes and i reacted like a div and jus looked at her as if to say wot u going on like that for. She told me to man up? I kept trying with her and didnt realise i was messing myself up. I confronted her on several occasions and she kept saying she wasnt fully over her ex and need space etc i gave her space but she kept txting and calling? but didnt realise i was becoming a doormat, loosing myself. I started to notice changes in her and when i confronted her i was told im insecure?Then recently caught her in a club with another guy, i wanted to say something but then also realised i was right she was lying to me and thought u are not worth it.she ran off out of guilt. Then spoke to her the next day and she tryed telling me she didnt want a serious relathionship. Ahe had often said she doesnt want someone to love and care for her but someone to look after her? That confused me and still does.I told her wot for before leaving. I having spoke to her since it was only a week ago i feel devastated though i loved her and cant belive she took me for a fool and wasnt honest with me.im trying to get over her but its so tough That should have sent you running. Everything after simply confirms she indeed didn't want anything serious and couldn't be counted on. Next time, pay very close attention to those red flags. Anyone with attachments to their ex is not a candidate for a relationship. Continue No Contact. If she messages or call, ignore. Block. 1
sandylee1 Posted August 15, 2015 Posted August 15, 2015 She wants someone to pay her bills and to have someone else that she is sexual with. That's about the size of it. If a girl isn't over her Ex, end the relationship right then. It's very easy to start up with an ex again. Move on and get yourself out there. Plenty more fish in the sea.
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