lonelyroad Posted August 14, 2015 Posted August 14, 2015 (edited) [WARNING LONG POST AHEAD!!!]so i started dating this girl that i knew for a while in the middle of January and we really love each other.. but recently we just broke up a month ago because things just didn't work out... first thing what had happened was that she was acting strange because she friend-zoned but still love me just so she could focus on her work. i understand that she was busy, but that's when things started to hurt me... she REALLY did start to treat me not like a boyfriend. she would barley say that she loves me... and would say we don't have the same interests... she had never said that when we first started dating... she calls me and apologizes of what she did and i was okay with it.. (while that call was going on she ends up hanging up on me while i'm talking. and lies and said she couldn't hear me...) days later we were texting and she said that i and her don't have the same interests. (again she never said this before and we know each other) when she said that she made me feel like i wasn't enough for her because we didn't have the same interests and made me feel like she needed someone like her exceptions... this made me lead to sadness and doubted her that she never loved me but in the end it feels like hurt her more than her hurting me. so she broke up with me and said that she would get a boyfriend later on in life... turned out she was already dating someone else a month later... so is all of this my fault am i the that has to be ashamed of doubting her... this is my first relation ship and i'm just stuck... Edited August 15, 2015 by lonelyroad
La.Primavera Posted August 15, 2015 Posted August 15, 2015 You have nothing to feel ashamed about. Sadly, even if she had feelings for you at the beginning of the relationship, those feelings have changed. Telling you that you don't have enough in common was merely an excuse. I know it is hard right now but you will get through it. Take care.
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