ayoyayo Posted August 14, 2015 Posted August 14, 2015 So there's a guy I live with in a co-op that I talked to for three weeks via text then talked to for the first time at one of the parties we hosted. We'd acknowledge each other by looks but he worked a full time job in the city so we'd never had a chance to talk. He made plans to take me on a date to the city or a bar and even asked around for recommendations of shows he knew I liked that we could watch. In any case, we hung out and talked for a couple hours for our first meeting. Then, we hung out again a couple days after, watched a few shows and had sex. We talked for a lot after and he invited me to sleep over. I didn't accept his offer because I thought I'd be annoying. (I'm paranoid like that.) A few days later he invited me to do whippets - we hung out and had sex again. The next week he invited me to a bar but because I'm underage we hung out again - he asked if I wanted to do something but because it was one in the morning I didn't know what to do. We hung out the day before yesterday with friends chatting and we hung out yesterday with friends again, went back to his room - talked then had sex. I really like this guy so thought I should've said something like "I like you, let's hang out more" or something but just asked if he was down to hang out this weekend. His best friend is leaving and his project for work is due Monday so he wasn't sure, but said potentially if he's free. He kissed me goodnight and that was it. Throughout the month and week we've been talking we've communicated consistently through text though there has been a couple days where we haven't texted much. I've told my friends about him and a couple said "you could do better" or "you're way hotter than him", even one of the guys I lived with drunkenly laughed at me and said he couldn't see it. In any case, I'm asking for second thoughts on whether it's a hookup or more and what I can do to steer it to a direction where it could be more. Thanks!
mavendark Posted August 14, 2015 Posted August 14, 2015 So you guys have been consistently seeing each other for a month + a week? Or was seeing each other shorter than that? From the perspective you are telling, it seems he's into you, like asking you out and inviting you over to do stuff. That's a good sign. It seems that you, yourself, is unsure of whether you want to be with him...? (You mentioned that your friends saying you are way better/ hotter than him...) Are you asking us this because you personally have doubts inside that you could do better as well? Do you like him?
GemmaUK Posted August 14, 2015 Posted August 14, 2015 I really like this guy so thought I should've said something like "I like you, let's hang out more" or something but just asked if he was down to hang out this weekend. His best friend is leaving and his project for work is due Monday so he wasn't sure, but said potentially if he's free. He kissed me goodnight and that was it. He wasn't sure if he could fit in sex with you over the weekend. This is a glaring hook up IMO but you let it become that - if that is what you want you'll have to wait and see if he has an hour or two free. 1
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