Gymcandyman Posted August 14, 2015 Posted August 14, 2015 It's been 2months since the split , my ex gf asked to meet me the other day for a catch up, we went gym together and we went to get some food, I proceeded to flirt with her make her laugh touch her as much as I could I told her how Im sorting myself out got a job realised the mistakes of the break up , today also banned myself from the bookies which I'm proud of myself , she broke up with me because she felt like all I cared about was myself and was selfish going gambling all the time not spending much time with her thought that I wasnt proud of her ... Last time she said she sees me as just a friend but I know she's just saying that so she don't get hurt again so am I wasting my time I just want to show how I've changed and I've improved get them lost feelings back taking things slow to gain her trust showing I won't let her down again is there a chance that I will get her back this way ??
theredpill Posted August 14, 2015 Posted August 14, 2015 Be the best version of you, keep making the effort and time will tell. We can't tell you either way, good luck!
Author Gymcandyman Posted August 26, 2015 Author Posted August 26, 2015 Update : so last night we went gym together then went back to hers watched a movie and cuddled up and fell asleep then had sex when we woke up its my birthday and we went and had dinner together really had a nice time and she said I've got little things to improve on but I'm doing good but I think she wants to take things slow not rushing anything like see where things lead to hopefully it will turn out fine fingers-crossed
Satu Posted August 26, 2015 Posted August 26, 2015 Dump the gambling habit. It's for losers. Literally. Use your money to add things of value to your life and relationships.
Author Gymcandyman Posted August 26, 2015 Author Posted August 26, 2015 Yh I have thanks and haven't been there in months I don't get the urge to go in there now I can walk past it like its nothing now 1
Methodical Posted August 26, 2015 Posted August 26, 2015 Yeah, she wants to take things slow bc old habits die hard. Although you have removed a source of discord, that doesn't mean you are truly committed to maintaining this reinvented version of yourself for the long haul. She needs to see that this isn't a temporary reprieve. She cares about you but at the same time she's not willing to turn a blind eye only to be disappointed and hurt again. Congrats on cleaning up you act. Time will give her the answers she seeks. 1
Satu Posted August 26, 2015 Posted August 26, 2015 Yh I have thanks and haven't been there in months I don't get the urge to go in there now I can walk past it like its nothing now Well done on that. Good move.
Author Gymcandyman Posted August 26, 2015 Author Posted August 26, 2015 Yeah, she wants to take things slow bc old habits die hard. Although you have removed a source of discord, that doesn't mean you are truly committed to maintaining this reinvented version of yourself for the long haul. She needs to see that this isn't a temporary reprieve. She cares about you but at the same time she's not willing to turn a blind eye only to be disappointed and hurt again. Congrats on cleaning up you act. Time will give her the answers she seeks. Thanks, I neither want to go back the relationship we had too much bickering and drama I'd rather have a fresh one with her doing more stuff together and keep getting stronger together as a couple even if she doesn't decide she wants me back at least I've made improvements for my next relationship with a new woman
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