allytiger Posted August 14, 2015 Posted August 14, 2015 Ok so I been seeing this guy but every time I want to see him he always wants me to send him money but he doesn't keep my money he hands it back to me after he sees me. Which is ridiculous. Because now he wants me to do it again but now he wants me to send him $60 in the mail but I don't have $60 dollars on me so he wants me to go to the bank. But really I don't want to do it. He's doing this because he doesn't want me to ditch him or leave him hanging like I did once back in June and yes I know it's August. Is there another way I can get him to come to see me instead having me send him money through the mail? I want to prove to him that I won't ditch him when he comes over. But he's not from my city he lives 3-hours away from my city. We're both in our 20s. He says pictures don't prove anything about me ditching him again please I need some ideas instead sending him my money. We both like each other and we want everything to work out.
Qboro90 Posted August 14, 2015 Posted August 14, 2015 This is one of the most ridiculous things I've ever heard. Wow. Please do yourself a favor and get away from this guy ASAP. Either he is doing this and will continue to request larger and larger sums of money and then disappear on you and take your money with him, or if you just started meeting this guy and this is what he's asking of you I can almost guarantee that he will ask you to do worse and worse the longer you're with him. Why would you agree to this is probably a better question? He's blackmailing you to see him and not bail by holding onto your money until you come get it? That's so bizarre. Get away from this weirdo. 2
La.Primavera Posted August 14, 2015 Posted August 14, 2015 You should not be giving him any money and he certainly shouldn't be asking you for any! The fact he is using emotional blackmail to make you give it to him is even worse. It is controlling behavior which is unacceptable. This guy doesn't respect you and is going to cause you nothing but problems in the long run. A man of good character would never behave like this. Seriously, you deserve so much better than this guy. 2
La.Primavera Posted August 14, 2015 Posted August 14, 2015 I just read a couple of your other posts and I am really concerned for you. Please talk to your family or a councilor about this situation with this guy.
Mrin Posted August 14, 2015 Posted August 14, 2015 Earnest money for dating? Brilliant idea! Seriously, Match should do this - dating escrow! All kidding aside - this is abhorrent behavior. Walk away from him and see just how quickly he loses the earnest money demand.
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