strong-hearted Posted August 14, 2015 Posted August 14, 2015 Guys I need help: I'm dating this one guy and we've been dating for 9 months, it's been really rocky. I love him but I just feel like he's taking me for granted, he lives in Las Vegas and I live in California and I've gone to visit him 3 times already...well he moved to Las Vegas a since May. I've shown him how much I love him gone above and beyond for him and I feel like I always end up getting the crums or leftovers of his time and attention, he's moving back to California in a month and he wants me to move in with him but at this point I don't know what to do. I really don't want to get hurt again so as of now I'm doing everything it takes to protect my heart from getting broken!
xcupid Posted August 14, 2015 Posted August 14, 2015 How are you protecting your heart from being broken? Seems to me you're already feeling hurt from his behavior. Dating 9 months. Feel he takes you for granted. Rocky relationship. Feel you're getting the crumbs. Not giving you his time and attention. These are all red flags. Sounds like you're not his priority and as you said, you're being taken for granted. The ONLY reason that could even justify some of this behavior is that it's a long distance relationship. And even then he could show you he cares about you by staying in touch, sending you cards, visiting you, and generally romancing you. So there's really no excuse is there? Do you honestly think things will improve if you move in with him? That will be the WORST decision you make. When he moves back to California continue to date him for several months to see if things improve. If they do and you see REAL progress in the relationship then you can make the decision of whether or not to live with him. If they don't then you know what to do - and it's not to live with him. Good luck!
Gaeta Posted August 14, 2015 Posted August 14, 2015 Honey, right now he's taking you for granted from Las Vegas. If you move in with him he'll simply take you for granted right in front of your face. Date a man worthy of your time.
Author strong-hearted Posted August 14, 2015 Author Posted August 14, 2015 thank you guys for your advice, it is very true what you guys are saying and at this point I am ready to move on, I think I deserve better. I thought about the whole moving in with him thing and yeah I think I dodged a bullet
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