adreamwithinadream Posted August 13, 2015 Posted August 13, 2015 I always thought it you wanted a break, there was no going back to the relationship, relationship done.But now im having mixed feeling about it. Do breaks really help to think and do you really want to be with that person and can you really go back to that person after break and everything be fixed? I feel that if you need break something is seriously wrong with that relationship and nothing will fix it, I am wanting a break but im so confused i feel i should either just stay or leave and not look back. I was cheated on while i was pregnant and the hurt is still there after my baby is now 7 months. He is a awesome dad and i love him and will always love him, he gave me my beautiful daughters but i just carry this pain and hate for him at the same time. Does having break give people a different outlook on a relationship and give more strength to better decide what they want to do?
foolinlove79 Posted August 13, 2015 Posted August 13, 2015 To me there is a big difference between a break and a break up. Sometimes yes i think a break can help you work through things and decide how you really feel. Youd need to discuss it properly but so you are on the same. Eg. Both agree you wont be seeing other people during that time. 1
casey.lives Posted August 13, 2015 Posted August 13, 2015 Be careful with breaks .. because a girl will just come in and swoop in on your man and post a youtube vien making a joke about your "carelessness" and how she snatched him..on your "break".. sooooooooooo.... yeeeeah. and she will and laugh and laugh... and laugh and laugh.. 1
Author adreamwithinadream Posted August 13, 2015 Author Posted August 13, 2015 To me there is a big difference between a break and a break up. Sometimes yes i think a break can help you work through things and decide how you really feel. Youd need to discuss it properly but so you are on the same. Eg. Both agree you wont be seeing other people during that time. we have both discussed a break and he said we could have one if i wanted but he said he is worth waiting for and waiting it out because he is in a bad spot right now because he is very depressed but so am i and he wont really listen to what i have to say and how i feel and he just keeps hurt me by going out and drinking and being stupid, i feel like i cant handle it but we have kids and feeel like just suffering through this for my kids because he is a good dad but i feel like im suffocating
Satu Posted August 13, 2015 Posted August 13, 2015 The relationship you have is the relationship you have. If you like it today, you'll probably like it tomorrow. If you don't like it today, you probably won't like it tomorrow. In itself, the break won't fix anything, but it might help you decide wether you want to continue the relationship or not, and it might help you decide what would have to change for it to continue. As regards fixing things: couples counselling might help. Take care. 1
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