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My ex broke up with me about 4 months ago; need help coping!


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Hi My ex broke up with me about 4 months ago when we broke up she started talking to someone 2 maybe one week later it broke my heart made me feel like I was nothing I'm not sure if it's normal for girls to do that like go onto the next boy that comes along? Anyway they ain't talking now because I think he cheated on her so I'll never know if it was a rebound or whatever hurts my head just thinking about, we was in a relationship for 16 months Anyway I keep thinking because she broke up with me does this mean she's moved on completely and that she's better than me? Is it normal to be thinking all this like I keep thinking her life is great now without me and I'm just stuck here feeling sorry for myself, I have progressed a lot from the start of the break up but when I see her now and again feels like everything rushes back to me Any how is this normal and does this make her better than me i aslo keep thinking ill never find someone better

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you will find someone better. Don't worry about that. it certainly doesn't make her better than you. It makes her way of coping different. There's no way to tell if she is over you or not, but this is irrelevant.

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Mate my ex left me 4 months ago, she slept with some guy a week after and started seeing him. They are together now. It hurts but what can ya do? I had her nearly cheat on him with me a couple. Of weeks ago but that's no good is it.

I think it's un healthy to think about whether she is over you or not. If she wanted you she would have you.

You gotta move on mate, I know it's hard. I still love my ex but it's not worth hurting myself over. Is suggest you accept this too. There will be another one for you. Maybe you will get back with your ex. But that will only happen once you have both healed.

 

Good luck mate.

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