Suka suka Posted August 12, 2015 Posted August 12, 2015 I've been seeing this guy about 6-7 dates now. Last time he said he liked me and wants to see more of me. Lately he sends me flirty texts but never initiates the dates anymore so I asked him out the last date. Yesterday he sent me a text saying he was thinking of me all night but still not asking me for another date. I'm confused why he use to ask me out but now he stopped. Should I ask him out again?
GemmaUK Posted August 12, 2015 Posted August 12, 2015 Wait for him to come to you. Give him a chance to miss you.
fryingpan Posted August 12, 2015 Posted August 12, 2015 As I understand few women ever really initiate dates atleast in the beggining. But after 7 dates is not the beggining anymore so if you don't want to start initiating now then are you ever? Maybe he wants you to reciprocate. While you maybe want to keep the dynamic as it is permanentley, in that the man always initiates. If so maybe you are a bad match.
Vintage79 Posted August 12, 2015 Posted August 12, 2015 OP - he's either not that interested in you, or not interested in the pseudo-games you're playing with him. If you like him, ask him out and don't worry about it...
xcupid Posted August 12, 2015 Posted August 12, 2015 You asked him out on the last date? If so, I wouldn't ask him out any more. He should be stepping up and asking you out. He either isn't into you or he's a lazy dater - neither of which is a very good sign.
fryingpan Posted August 12, 2015 Posted August 12, 2015 You asked him out on the last date? If so, I wouldn't ask him out any more. He should be stepping up and asking you out. He either isn't into you or he's a lazy dater - neither of which is a very good sign. He asked her out for the first 6 dates so he has already stepped out. He has already put in more effort than her. If he's a lazy dater then so is the OP, moreso infact.
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