Amelie1980 Posted August 12, 2015 Posted August 12, 2015 Why would an ex block you on facebook (which you never used and were never friends on) but not on whatsapp which we did use. So he doesnt want me looking but hasnt stopped me contacting him?
quattrob Posted August 12, 2015 Posted August 12, 2015 I think the question you're asking is not important and certainly no one would know, only your ex would know. Also these kinds of questions are really pointless if you think about it. It does not accomplish anything in my opinion. We could give you guesses but no one will know, unless you just want someone to tell you "your ex is doing that because he is hoping you would contact him on whatsapp and that he wants to get back together with you in the future". I think that's what you're hoping for right? Otherwise you wouldn't be wondering and asking this question here.
Author Amelie1980 Posted August 12, 2015 Author Posted August 12, 2015 Yeah you're right! I also think the most likely option is if he finds himself single again and wants causal sex. Leaving lines open for that.
aloneinaz Posted August 13, 2015 Posted August 13, 2015 Most "smart" people block their ex on FB, especially the dumper. Why? Sometimes they don't want the dumpee to see that they've wiped their page clean of the person they dumped. They may even of started dating again and post pictures of the new person in their life. Some folks don't want any post break up drama. They are smart to block their ex from things that may set off the dumpee to start contacting them again to vent and bitch at them.
Author Amelie1980 Posted August 13, 2015 Author Posted August 13, 2015 Most "smart" people block their ex on FB, especially the dumper. Why? Sometimes they don't want the dumpee to see that they've wiped their page clean of the person they dumped. They may even of started dating again and post pictures of the new person in their life. Some folks don't want any post break up drama. They are smart to block their ex from things that may set off the dumpee to start contacting them again to vent and bitch at them. We were NEVER friends on it. He never has a pic of him with a woman as profile pic.
An0nymiss666 Posted August 13, 2015 Posted August 13, 2015 I wouldn't read too far into it. My ex blocked me on all social media but then started texting me again and was messing with my head all year until last week. I would agree that they probably don't want you to know any of their business yet still want to keep that door open, which would be via text or phone. Even if they supposedly don't use their Facebook it's still a connection they'll cut off. That's exactly what it is, he DOESN'T want you looking but still wants to leave the door open just in case. And you shouldn't be just an option. Just go no contact or block him yourself...I just went through this nasty situation for a year, and I wouldn't wish this on anybody.
Author Amelie1980 Posted August 13, 2015 Author Posted August 13, 2015 I wouldn't read too far into it. My ex blocked me on all social media but then started texting me again and was messing with my head all year until last week. I would agree that they probably don't want you to know any of their business yet still want to keep that door open, which would be via text or phone. Even if they supposedly don't use their Facebook it's still a connection they'll cut off. That's exactly what it is, he DOESN'T want you looking but still wants to leave the door open just in case. And you shouldn't be just an option. Just go no contact or block him yourself...I just went through this nasty situation for a year, and I wouldn't wish this on anybody. I thought that might be it. As why would he block me on facebook when we have never ever been friends on it and we have never used messenger either. We do use whatsapp. So that is why I thought he blocked me on facebook to stop me looking at his profile page but has not prevented me from contacting him completely. he is a user. makes perfect sense.
An0nymiss666 Posted August 14, 2015 Posted August 14, 2015 My ex said he didn't use his Facebook much either, and before he blocked me, from what I could see, he was being honest. So I had no idea why he would block me either. But at the end of the day if they block you on there they really don't want you to know any details of their lives. Unfortunately some people just become users I think he kept me on texting because he still had some feelings but never wanted to be with me again. He liked the familiarity but all it did was mess with my head...for an entire year. He drew me in and pushed me away over and over again until it finally got to a point where we just had a big fight to end them all, and blocked each other. Instead of getting over it and handling it before, I'm back to where I was when we first broke up. It's better to save yourself now...I know everyone's situation is different but still
Author Amelie1980 Posted August 14, 2015 Author Posted August 14, 2015 My ex said he didn't use his Facebook much either, and before he blocked me, from what I could see, he was being honest. So I had no idea why he would block me either. But at the end of the day if they block you on there they really don't want you to know any details of their lives. Unfortunately some people just become users I think he kept me on texting because he still had some feelings but never wanted to be with me again. He liked the familiarity but all it did was mess with my head...for an entire year. He drew me in and pushed me away over and over again until it finally got to a point where we just had a big fight to end them all, and blocked each other. Instead of getting over it and handling it before, I'm back to where I was when we first broke up. It's better to save yourself now...I know everyone's situation is different but still The only reason why I think mine hasnt blocked me completely is I may be a back burner sex option if he gets dumped by his latest. It is the only reason I can think of. We are not talknig at the moment. So why blcok me on one we dont use and not the other we do use.
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