912brian24 Posted August 12, 2015 Posted August 12, 2015 Dated this awesome girl for 5 months and everything went great! We had a little fuss with each other one day over some things in her past that she lied about and after that she decided that we needed to take a break! the catch to this is that she is recently divorced. Out of the 5 months she was only officially divorced for 2 months. I've been divorced for almost 2 years and I know we're just at two different points in our life! I didn't show my butt or even get upset I just said if you think that's best then I'll step away and give it to you! We both are divorced parents and our kids we're involved also and they got along perfect and loved playing and being with each other! As much as it hurt we started the nc thing and after a week she sent me a message that said and I quote "do not respond but I just wanted you to know that I've been thinking about you and hope you and the boys had a great weekend" just trying to make sense why she wanted this but texted me! I'm not the type of guy to chase after a women whatsoever and reguadless of how I feel about her I want do it! Just trying to get some advice because I've never done the whole break thing! We have done things together and shared things that she told me she can never forget and doesn't want to forget them. She told me I'm the best thing that's ever happened to her and that she's so scared of losing me but she has to do this for herself and I understand that. She told me that when she gets ready that I'm the one that gets to have her and she will make it back to me. I know that I have to move on and I' am but would love to have her back one day! Any thoughts?? Thanks!!!
d0nnivain Posted August 12, 2015 Posted August 12, 2015 My read is that you were a rebound but when you had what you called "your little fuss" she may have realized she wasn't ready to date. It had only been about 90 days since her divorce was final & the finality of that piece of paper may have taken a while to hit her. The text was her way of clearing her conscious & trying to prove to herself that she's a nice person. let her be because I think you are correct: 2 years after your divorce you two are in different life / healing stages.
Author 912brian24 Posted August 12, 2015 Author Posted August 12, 2015 My read is that you were a rebound but when you had what you called "your little fuss" she may have realized she wasn't ready to date. It had only been about 90 days since her divorce was final & the finality of that piece of paper may have taken a while to hit her. The text was her way of clearing her conscious & trying to prove to herself that she's a nice person. let her be because I think you are correct: 2 years after your divorce you two are in different life / healing stages. We're thinking the same way! I'm sure I was the rebound and she was ok with it until some some real relationship stuff came up and she realized that it was real! Hey you never know what the future holds in this crazy thing we call life! Look through the windshield and not the rear-view mirror! 1
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