daisy12345 Posted August 12, 2015 Posted August 12, 2015 (edited) I've known this guy since March and we have been together for almost 2 months. He asked me if I wanted to spend Christmas with his family in the US. We both live abroad (around 24 hours away by plane). Is it a big deal that he asked me to meet his family? We used to see each other once a week, but now we are seeing each other 4-5 days a week and spending nights together whenever we can. I love to cook, and he likes to eat the food I make and sometimes we cook together. Some days I'll go over to his and sometimes he comes to mine. He plans future holidays with me, and wants to travel to my home country too. He says he really likes me for my personality and intelligence. When we are together, he wants to make love 1-2 a day. I know that he wants to settle down and have kids. He is in his late 30s and Im in my late 20s. Edited August 12, 2015 by daisy12345
Redhead14 Posted August 12, 2015 Posted August 12, 2015 I've known this guy since March and we have been together for almost 2 months. He asked me if I wanted to spend Christmas with his family in the US. We both live abroad (around 24 hours away by plane). Is it a big deal that he asked me to meet his family? Yes and no. It is not wise to involve family and close friends when it's early in a relationship before it has "legs" and both parties are focused and sure about one another. Family and friends can be very influential and it's possible to sway feeling and cause one or the other to be confused and insecure. I'd put that off for a while and continue to get to know one another. Continue to observe how he dates you, how he makes you feel, whether or not he is meeting your early dating needs and evaluate whether you feel he can and wants to meet your further needs for a long-term relationship. Have you had conversations about each other's dating goals in general?
PegNosePete Posted August 12, 2015 Posted August 12, 2015 After only 2 months I expect this is a provisional/theoretical question rather than an open invitation and expression of undying affection. Walk before you run. 1
CarrieT Posted August 12, 2015 Posted August 12, 2015 You've only known each other for five months. Get through an entire year - all four season - together before considering these things. It is important to get past the honeymoon period in a relationship before thinking about settling down. 1
smackie9 Posted August 12, 2015 Posted August 12, 2015 You can't possible know someone in that amount of time. Just go through the steps and see where it takes ya.
katiegrl Posted August 12, 2015 Posted August 12, 2015 I've known this guy since March and we have been together for almost 2 months. He asked me if I wanted to spend Christmas with his family in the US. We both live abroad (around 24 hours away by plane). Is it a big deal that he asked me to meet his family? We used to see each other once a week, but now we are seeing each other 4-5 days a week and spending nights together whenever we can. I love to cook, and he likes to eat the food I make and sometimes we cook together. Some days I'll go over to his and sometimes he comes to mine. He plans future holidays with me, and wants to travel to my home country too. He says he really likes me for my personality and intelligence. When we are together, he wants to make love 1-2 a day. I know that he wants to settle down and have kids. He is in his late 30s and Im in my late 20s. I would say at most, in his mind, you **could** be the one, but it's too soon to know for sure. It definitely looks positive though! Sounds like he is very into you and things are progressing nicely! 2
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