912brian24 Posted August 12, 2015 Posted August 12, 2015 (edited) My ex and I have been broken up for almost 2 weeks now so it's still kinda fresh! This Saturday my friends and I are heading down to Savannah for a good ole night out on the town but I just found out that her and her friends are doing the same thing Saturday night!!!! I know that I don't want to run into her just because I don't want to have to go threw all those feelings again and sure as hell don't want to see her dancing with dudes and all that crap! Help a brother out! Edited August 12, 2015 by 912brian24
aloneinaz Posted August 12, 2015 Posted August 12, 2015 My ex and I have been broken up for almost 2 weeks now so it's still kinda fresh! This Saturday my friends and I are heading down to Savannah for a good ole night out on the town but I just found out that her and her friends are doing the same thing Saturday night!!!! I know that I don't want to run into her just because I don't want to have to go threw all those feelings again and sure as hell don't want to see her dancing with dudes and all that crap! Help a brother out! You're absolutely right to recognize that running into her, out partying would not be good for you right now. Throw alcohol in the mix and you're really priming yourself for a potential disaster. The solution sounds simple to me, you and your posse go somewhere else. When my last ex and I broke up, I avoid like the plague anywhere I may of run into her at until I was past her. You should do the same. 2
Gus Grimly Posted August 12, 2015 Posted August 12, 2015 he solution sounds simple to me, you and your posse go somewhere else. When my last ex and I broke up, I avoid like the plague anywhere I may of run into her at until I was past her. You should do the same. I agree with aloneinaz 100%. The last thing you need is to see her, especially when there is booze, pumped up friends and a lot of built up hurt that could lead to animosity. You might just stay home and make it a Netflix night if you can't find an alternative place to relax and enjoy yourself. 1
LeslieKnope Posted August 12, 2015 Posted August 12, 2015 I don't know where you live in proximity to Savannah, but surely there are other bars in other towns where you can have a good time and not see her on Saturday. Everyone here wants you to move on and have fun, but don't put yourself in the powder keg. 1
Yummm Posted August 12, 2015 Posted August 12, 2015 Don't go, it sucks but you should try avoiding her until you are more en-route to being healed. I had alot of setbacks as I have to see my ex almost daily because of my work location. I held off going to a young professionals event that we used to go to together for a few months. Now i'm back from holiday I will be going there full power and confident in a couple weeks when it starts! Take some time away, it'll help your healing 1
Author 912brian24 Posted August 12, 2015 Author Posted August 12, 2015 Sounds about right everyone! I know that I could see her and not show my butt or anything crazy but I been NC with her for the entire 2 weeks and just don't won't her thinking I'm trying to run into her! 1
Realitycol Posted August 12, 2015 Posted August 12, 2015 Sounds about right everyone! I know that I could see her and not show my butt or anything crazy but I been NC with her for the entire 2 weeks and just don't won't her thinking I'm trying to run into her! Yeah don't run into her. Don't even give the slightest hint in her brain that you may be on her trail or stalking her. She'll get an ego boost or worse, she'll actually think you're obsessed with her or an actual creep/stalker status. Avoid running into her at all cost, BUT that doesn't mean stay cramped in your bed crying until you can't cry anymore. Go out, have fun, live life, be busy living not dying and crying in your bed.
Chi townD Posted August 12, 2015 Posted August 12, 2015 Yep! If you know she's going to Savannah, then make plans to go somewhere else. There are tons of other location you can go to. If your friends are truly your friends, they'll understand. Sounds like you guys have been there before anyway. Could be a good time as any to change it up and see something new.
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