NTB Posted May 9, 2005 Posted May 9, 2005 it's been a week since i broke NC i was doing so good to i had gone a how 3.5 weeks without even as much as text message between us and then she calls me and i actually picked up. well if you have read my other post you know it wasn't a good call she called to tell me that she was dating someone already which wasn't really what i wanted to hear. anyway she gets into an accident and i like a dumba$$ that i am was there to comfort her. anyway then Saturday night like 5am she calls me and tells me i need to help her stay awake cause she is driving home mind you while she had been drinking and also to tell me that she was driving back from another date .......anyway really what i need is a little insight here because i really need to re-establish NC and i thought i would be able to do it seeing as how i was on a good streak but it seems that it got harder
laRubiaBonita Posted May 9, 2005 Posted May 9, 2005 she had a car wreck.....then later that week calls you while she is driving under the influance? sounds like a really responsible, self- loving person! why not just tell her that her life-style choices, leave you feeling quite vulnerable and quite frankly pissed off.
Marshbear Posted May 9, 2005 Posted May 9, 2005 The women is selfish. She wants you to be her friend and buddy with no regard for how you feel about her. You need to be firm and tell her you are not involved in her life and will not be there to comfort her or get her out of jams. Take control of the situation. You are not interested in her life after you. Tell her...
Author NTB Posted May 9, 2005 Author Posted May 9, 2005 i think i might be talking another language to her i told her that she shouldn't be driving like that and she goes off telling me i can't tell her what to do then i told her since she calls me to keep her awake i think i do have a right. but then i tell her straight out "do me a favor don't call me anymore" and says why i swear i wanted to go off the deep end
laRubiaBonita Posted May 9, 2005 Posted May 9, 2005 Originally posted by NTB "do me a favor don't call me anymore" and says why i swear i wanted to go off the deep end so that is it. no more calls or contact, especially when she is drunk/ drinking. let that be the end.
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