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So Loveshack, I find myself here for the fourth time in as many years.

 

I keep telling myself I'll learn from my mistakes, but alas I haven't

I met this wonderful girl a few months back by sheer fate,

And I'm not religious but this felt like a blessing.

 

We got talking away there was instant connection and chemistry on a level

That I have never ever felt before, we shared so many interests from cars, food travelling, right down the fact this woman would take words out of my mouth,

We had great minds that thought alike, she was different from any woman I have dated,

Infact I'd say she made me see the difference between dating a girl and a woman.

I knew she was leaving for Australia this month and I just kept pushing it to the back of my mind, I didn't think it would affect me like it has I'd fallen for her..

 

She was so down to earth, she treated me with respect always asked how I was and

Would open mindedly sit there and talk about what ever troubles we had,

She had natural beauty in and out and was the most selfless person I've ever met,

I'd come in to the kitchen or parts of the house and she'd be there cleaning up mess that I or others had made off her own back, it's the little things I guess, and without to much details I've never quite experienced anything like her in the bedroom, completely blew my mind!

 

The last two months we've spent every weekend together, we live over 2 hours apart, we've been away to hotels, restaurants, festivals, boat trips, themeparks you name it,

There were nights she would drive up in the evening to spend the night with me just to go home the next morning over 150 miles as we had work.

 

All seemed routine until the weekend, I got a late night message usually it's a touching meme or kisses goodnight but this time a paragraph stating. "you've literally met me at the worst time possible, but that's okay it gives you a chance to find someone better, someone who appreciates everything about you more then I do"

 

She goes away today and it's an awful feeling, she wants to keep in touch and so do I.

 

Why do we meet these people at such a time where it's impossible, it's such a travesty that it has to end this way, it hurts even more knowing nothing bad happend for this to end.

 

And I guess what's more confusing is why make all that effort and do all those things the traveling for what seems in the end like nothing?

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u spend all this wonderful time together and that's how closes?! ummm.. worst time and yet u had a great time?! some people are NOT LOGICAL!!

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Sorry to hear your story buddy, seems like you guys really connected!

 

I guess sometimes you just have to accept that no matter how great a relationship is, sometimes its just not your time to be together and you just have to let them go and move on

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u spend all this wonderful time together and that's how closes?! ummm.. worst time and yet u had a great time?! some people are NOT LOGICAL!!

 

That's what I don't understand she would say she missed me and drop me nice messages when she did, and say how she was looking forward too seeing me and now she's just distant, talking but distant emotionally

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Sorry to hear your story buddy, seems like you guys really connected!

 

I guess sometimes you just have to accept that no matter how great a relationship is, sometimes its just not your time to be together and you just have to let them go and move on

 

We did and still do, even after it all she's quite open and flirty with me then the next day just distant

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