disbelief Posted August 12, 2015 Posted August 12, 2015 long story short my ex gf and I had a three year relationship and also have a 2 year old son. the relationship wasn't great but it also wasn't horrible, i feel she should have tried harder for our son but she gave me the " i love you but im not in love with you" line and was on a date 2 days later with some other guy. in the beginning of the relationship i was into her and excited but the first time we had sex i remember being a little let down about it. hoping it would be better and in turn was not overly into her. over time and after having our son i just loved her because of our family and what we all went thru together. i did enjoy the regular sex and comfort of having someone/family in my life. now im just so alone and empty feeling, our son goes back and forth from my house to hers and i just want us to be all cuddled up together and have our family back but i think i am diluting myself seeing how i wasn't overly into her. i think as soon as she felt i really loved her the challenge was over and that's why she left...i dunno im confused and missing my family.
La.Primavera Posted August 12, 2015 Posted August 12, 2015 It sounds like she feels the same way you did about the relationship, only she wasn't willing a lie for the sake of your son. It was the right decision for both of you so you can both have the opportunity to find fulfilling relationships with other people but I'm sure that is little comfort to you right now. I'm sorry for what you are going through.
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