RoxStar Posted May 9, 2005 Posted May 9, 2005 Well I went 8 days with no contact. He called me last Thursday. We didnt establish much - not that there is much to be established at this point. He wants to be friends. WHATEVER. I told him I wasnt sure if that was possible because I cant be friends with people that lie to me and I cant be friends with people I dont trust. He is still hanging out and talking to his ex. I guess she spent the night with him again on Saturday. I still dont understand how she can just ditch her kids one or two nights a week while her soon to be ex husband is in rehab. These kids need a stable parent and she is out getting loaded. I guess that is neither here nor there at this point. I called him this morning because he owes me $120 for his phone bill that is due this week. He said he wants to talk and that he is going to call me later. I dont really think we have anything to talk about. I came to LS back in December because I was having some issues with him and then things got better and then it all fell apart.
alphamale Posted May 9, 2005 Posted May 9, 2005 u should not have picked up the phone ROXSTAR. a whole 8 days of NC is nothing, a drop in the bucket. it takes at least 3 months of total NC for it to have any effect. sorry to preach but i must state my opinion here.
Author RoxStar Posted May 9, 2005 Author Posted May 9, 2005 Very Ture. He does owe me some money though. But you are right. I should not have picked up the phone.
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