Concreteman78 Posted August 11, 2015 Posted August 11, 2015 So I've been dating this woman for about 4 months now, it's been great...really great. Boating with her family, trip to Dale Hollow for 10 days. Over at her house all the time, going to bars and such, concerts, etc. I mean it's been a blast and I've fell in love with her. Now my ex wife and my son are moving back to Indy from Arizona... I want to see my son buy not my ex. Thing is that my ex is causing issues with calling. And the fact she's moving in with my mom who I have a crappy relationship with anyways. This whole situation is terrible for anyone. I do everything I can to keep the nasty drama at bay the best I can. This past weekend while at the MotoGP race, my ex called and asks me about her car being dead and needing a jump. She usually only calls about our son. But my gf overheard me talking to her about her getting her car jumped. My gf got super ****ty. Plus having my crazy female friends trying to cause issues doesn't help. I've since deleted the friends out of my life for i dont care to have that kind of friends that cause issues like that. Now my gf is obviously pushing me away...she doesn't text me nearly as much, she comes up with excuses to not see me, doesn't ask for my daily pic like she used to. She has said she has a huge issue with my ex moving back and doesn't like it. I've told her I don't like it either...especially that she's moving in with my mom. My gf posts all kinds of relationship quote crap on fb that some are good and some are bad. I've told her I don't care for the negative relationship posts but she says she doesn't care about what people think. I told her I understand but out of respect I would appreciate her not. I asked tonight to see her and she's said possibly...she gets home and helps her neighbor with his fence and started doing yard work. Guess I'm not seeing her tonight again.... What to do...wait it out and see if she comes back around...or just end it and call it over?
deadelvis Posted August 11, 2015 Posted August 11, 2015 You need to absolutely minimize your contact with the ex. Provide complete transparency with the GF and give her a play-by-play. Only text with the ex about the kid, nothing more. Show your GF the texts every time. That's what I suggest anyway.
Gloria25 Posted August 11, 2015 Posted August 11, 2015 I'm confused here...who are these "crazy female friends"? Are they more women you were/are involved with besides the ex? Gosh, this is a hard one...cuz part of me is like "why can't your ex call on someone else for a jump?" But then again, you don't wanna upset the dragon (your ex) cuz might make you two getting along for the sake of your child difficult...and, giving someone a jump - especially the mother of your child isn't like you're taking her out to dinner. To tell the mother of your child to kiss off while she may need you is probably gonna make her start using your child to f- with you and like I said, you don't wanna upset the dragon. BTW....why is your ex moving in with your parents? Does she not have family of her own and/or means to live on her own? I mean, I wonder if your ex is playing damsel in distress just to stay connected to "you" and your current gf smells it. My thing is, your gf should realize that until that kid is 18, you're stuck with that ex and drama for that time period. If I were her, I'd like to keep our RL on the down low, only be introduced to your kid as a "friend", no sleepovers (unless your kid is not there) - to avoid any/all drama with the ex and/or the kid seeing dad with someone other than mommy drama. IMO....
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