I have a problem! or do I? is ther n e fing rong wiv me?

[leeroy1985]

Im a regular 19 yr old lad im 6'4" blah blah blah.... but the fing is wile all my uva m8s all want to go n get drunk and hav no strings sex wiv loadsa girls i want to b wiv sum1 and i get really down n stuff if im not n i dont feel normal! I neva seem to b able to find sum1.... altho i am sorta wiv a lass at the moment but it doesnt seem like its gunna last, or is it me bein paranoid?

 

When i do get a girlfriend i want to b wiv her all da time and i fall in love wiv them afta bein wiv them 2 days or sumet daft like that. Fings neva go rite and i havent eva kept a g/f for more than 2 weeks and evrytime i get a girl i fink i cum on 2 strong becoz im scared ther gunna get rid of me afta 2 weeks. I havnt been in a relationship 4 abwt 2yrs and i h8 it! My mam says i where my heart on my sleeve becoz my feelins r sooo clear all of da time, if im sad u could tell.... if im in love u could tell.

 

What im tryin 2 say is y do i feel like this becoz it hardly eva meks me happy and y crnt i b like my friends.... am i normal? it seems like my feelins r scarin potential g/fs away and it meks me feel dwn and im alas feelin sorry 4 myself! HELP!!!

[Merin]

Maybe FINGS are going WONG WIV DA Ladies because they cannot understand what you're saying?

 

 

 

JK JK JK!!!

 

My guess is because it seems you're wanting a more serious relationship you tend to rush into things with the first Girl who comes along... it takes time to build a relationship with someone and if you try to rush things the Girl may feel freaked out and wonder why you're coming on so strong...

 

My advice... slow down. When you meet someone cool give things times to develop ON THIER OWN... don't try to make things happen.

 

Good Luck

[Moose]

You have problems aw right. I couldn't even read what you wrote, (I could, but geeeeeez!!).

[bluetuesday]

hey leeroy, you're from west yorkshire. cool.

 

i'm not from the north but i'm a brit all the same.

 

stop typing like you're sending a text. it pisses people off.

 

okay. it's fine to want something more serious than no strings sex. but falling in love with girls in two weeks is really, really uncool. it's false. girls know this. they think it's a game so you can have no strings sex. so they leave you.

 

my friend, you're coming on way too strong, and inadvertently driving away that which you most want.

 

get to know some girls as friends. see who you have a genuine connection with. take it S L O W and let them dictate when it moves to the next level.

 

it's a matter of confidence. if you panic and stress that they're going to leave you, they probably will. you've got to think you're worth holding on to - which of course you ARE - you just don't believe it yet.

[seahorse]

I have a problem! or do I? is ther n e fing rong wiv me?

 

Yes, there is. You have no literacy skills . Luckily I'm a trained teaching assistant and can read grammar and spelling that is at infant level.

 

Ok, sorry, but if you want people to answer you, at least TRY to make it readable.

[johan]

You'll have better luck if you avoid writing them wuv letters.

[leeroy1985]

Thanks for the advise people.... and sorry about the dodgy spelling im just used to texting!!! I aint thick its just quicker to miss letters and spell things shorter. Anyway as you can see im now typing words fully

 

Cheers

Lee