Fix Posted August 11, 2015 Posted August 11, 2015 It's been over a year now, and although I'm doing better in as far as I get out of bed everyday and look after myself now, I'm even eating better I've put a little weight back on.... I'm still thinking about her everyday and still wanting to be with her. I still hope to bump into her when I'm out, or that she'll text me and want to talk. I still see us being together again... Even though every sign from the day we broke up has pointed to her having no interest what so ever. Why can't I shake this? I saw her profile on a dating site... I can't help but look and read. I want her to care, I want her to miss me... We match 84%... A question asks 'Would you ever consider dating one of your ex's again' She answers 'No'.
dyna85 Posted August 11, 2015 Posted August 11, 2015 Oh my gosh Fix. My heart seriously goes out to you so much. Esp with that question on the dating site. Ugh. That must have really hurt to see that. As for the feelings, they can take a long time to process, much longer than you might expect, so try not to be too hard on yourself for experiencing persistent feelings in spite of the year time frame. Any progress, not matter how minute, is good. I think you just need to keep going. Try not to look anymore at her dating site profile as that will keep you stuck. Just keep moving forward, and little by little you will get there. You are moving on even if it feels like you aren't. You said yourself you put some weight on and you're eating better. This is progress. Sure you haven't fully moved on, but no one is rushing you. It's about the journey, not the destination, as cliché as that sounds.
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