912brian24 Posted August 13, 2015 Posted August 13, 2015 She's so going to key your car! HA just playing! Just go have the coffee and see what's up man. That's all you can do!
ExpatInItaly Posted August 13, 2015 Posted August 13, 2015 Okay so if you have the time please go ahead and read this thread I posted before http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/542497-what-can-i-do-say-fix-things The advice I got from was only to forget about her completely because she would never want I talk to me. I ignored the advice given to me and I sent a message on fb along with asking out to some coffee. To my surprise this was her response (ignore her spelling, I'm copying and pasting) , "Anthony I not mad at you I'm just very disappointed. We can have coffee this week so I can talk to you know I don't want to kill you no more and don't worry I'm not the type of girl to get all stupid and do stuff to someone else's car." I told her that it sounded good and that she can pick the day. She hasn't responded yet and I replied on Tuesday. What do you guys expect that she wants to talk to me about? Is it about a second chance? Or just having a normal friendship? Keep in mind that she never hated me over something I did bad like cheat on her or lie to her. She that I was sweet but overwhelming. That I did nothing wrong just that she doesn't like to be smothered. I only said those mean things to her when I completely had it with her, otherwise I would never have done any such thing to ever hurt her. It's impossible to say, unfortunately. We can't tell you because we don't know her and that message is quite neutral and brief. There's too little to go on. Go into it with zero expectations. Use it as your opportunity to apologize, as you said you wanted to do in your previous thread. Don't think about second chances right now. Say what you felt you needed to say in order to make her understand that you are sincerely sorry. See how she responds. That's all you can do.
Toodaloo Posted August 13, 2015 Posted August 13, 2015 Either give me good advice or don't tell me anything like just forgetting about her and vanishing completely. Because every single day I come in to work, every time I leave for lunch or to go home...SHES RIGHT THERE.. You haven't been given good advice. You have been given great advice. Its just not advice that you want to hear. Go and get a new job. You are in serious danger of becoming a stalker over this and getting overly obsessed. You lost her because of it so perhaps its time to take notice to what she and others are saying...
Author Kylemopar Posted August 13, 2015 Author Posted August 13, 2015 You haven't been given good advice. You have been given great advice. Its just not advice that you want to hear. Go and get a new job. You are in serious danger of becoming a stalker over this and getting overly obsessed. You lost her because of it so perhaps its time to take notice to what she and others are saying... She said told me before that there is nothing that would ever change her mind about talking to me again, to get lost, that she never even wants to see me again. But here she is giving me a chance to speak with her when she made it absolutely clear before that I had no chance at talking to hear. I waited 3 weeks, I was just hoping that her being 26 and not being able to find someone yet that her heart missed the things I did for her. She was a very emotional girl, and I was her only form of comfortability.
mightycpa Posted August 13, 2015 Posted August 13, 2015 She said told me before that there is nothing that would ever change her mind about talking to me again, to get lost, that she never even wants to see me again. But here she is giving me a chance to speak with her when she made it absolutely clear before that I had no chance at talking to hear. I waited 3 weeks, I was just hoping that her being 26 and not being able to find someone yet that her heart missed the things I did for her. She was a very emotional girl, and I was her only form of comfortability. She's going to set a day, you're going to look forward to it, and then she's going to bail on you at the last minute. I can't count the number of times I have read that it happens exactly that way.
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