wonger24 Posted May 9, 2005 Posted May 9, 2005 Alright, here's my situation. There's this girl that is in one of my classes that I've been talking to, she's shown interest, such as maintaining eye contact and laughing at my comments. Well, the very last day of class, we hugged each other goodbye and she said "Well, you can go ahead and give me a call, you have my number." So, two days later I give her a call and she's working, so she says that she'll call me later. She hasn't called and it's been nearly two days later. On a side note, she works two jobs and this week is finals week. My question is, is she interested at all, or am I getting the brush-off?
JanieQP Posted May 9, 2005 Posted May 9, 2005 Maybe she's busy, or maybe she's following an advice book that tells women not to call back much. I don't think she's brushing you off. I'd wait until after finals are over and then call to see if she'd like to go out for drinks or something to celebrate with you. Oh, and have a specific idea of what to do, when you call. I don't know how other women react to this, but I hate-hate-hate the "When am I going to see you?" kinds of calls that put the whole burden on me. So if you have a few possible activities and times, that should improve your chances with her. Are you set on getting her as a gf, or is it okay if she turns out to be a good gal-pal?
LucreziaBorgia Posted May 9, 2005 Posted May 9, 2005 I could be buried under a ton of work, super busy, studying for ten exams... but if I am into a guy, and I mean really into him I'll make time for a study break: even if its only a ten minute phone call. If the guy is someone that I'm only marginally interested in, to the point where he's pretty low on my priority list in comparison to everything else I have going on, I won't call him back but I might take his phone calls and probably keep them short, or make excuses to get off the phone so I can go back to what I was doing. Give the workload some time to dissipate and try calling her again later. It sounds like she has some interest, though - at least worth checking out at a later time.
Marshbear Posted May 9, 2005 Posted May 9, 2005 I agree with LB. Give her some time and then try one more time. If she doesn't answer or doesn't call back she's not interested. Some women change their minds even after they were the ones that told you to call. Go figure. Mind games, I guess.
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