bebegal Posted May 9, 2005 Posted May 9, 2005 Been dating this guy for about 3 weeks. we hang out 4 days a wk, talk on the phone daily etc. we had a special night for saturday planned but lsat minute he had to cancel after finding out his cousin has cancer so he went up to see his family who lives 2 hours away. He did call me that day(sat) to say hi. Sunday--mother's day and he had a wedding( I had known about this for weeks). So that was today and the first time he has not called me since we started dating(serious dating). so I am bummed and wondering whats going on.. he is the type that will be swamped at work and still give me a 5 minute call. 1--How do I act tom when(if) he calls me and wants to hang out (he knows I am off tom but it was not officially stated we hang out-- 2--I have never been angry at him before but help but be a little upset and feel that if he called I would be a little cool on the phone.. do I have a right to be?? 3- should I tell him I already made plans for tom..?
moimeme Posted May 9, 2005 Posted May 9, 2005 What ever happened to a little understanding? The guy just finds out a relative has cancer and the next day has a wedding. Ya think maybe he might have a few things on his mind? Are you unable to call him? Maybe it would be nice of you to ask how he's feeling with all that going on on a weekend. Plus, it's Mother's Day!!!!!!! Posts like these boggle my mind, frankly. In his situation, would you be all about the new date or might you just maybe be somewhat stressed over all the family happenings?
Author bebegal Posted May 9, 2005 Author Posted May 9, 2005 thanks M thats what I needed to hear. seriously
WithOrWithoutYou Posted May 9, 2005 Posted May 9, 2005 Yes, call him for a change, and don't be cold. Just be yourself. He has a lot on his mind.
Author bebegal Posted May 9, 2005 Author Posted May 9, 2005 still no phone call.... i dont want to call him and sound needy....
Pendawn Posted May 9, 2005 Posted May 9, 2005 Originally posted by bebegal still no phone call.... i dont want to call him and sound needy.... Just give him a call, say you were thinking of him and wondering how he was after his stressful weekend. Don't let pride ruin what might be a great relationship.
laRubiaBonita Posted May 9, 2005 Posted May 9, 2005 Originally posted by bebegal still no phone call.... i dont want to call him and sound needy.... do not want to sound needy or selfish ??????? sorry but not getting your phone call from a guy who's life is quaking sound a bit like both. the opposite would be calling him to check and make sure he is doing ok, that his family is doing ok, does he need his plants watered while he is gone?
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