Jadedbyluv Posted August 11, 2015 Posted August 11, 2015 It's been awhile since I've come here for advice. Kinda took sometime to work on myself, and I have been doing pretty good. I have been dating a guy for the last 4 months or so who I really like. I am starting to develop strong feelings for him. We met online, and I disabled my profile early on into dating him. I was talking to other people when we first started dating but I felt more of a connection with him. We had a talk about exclusivity a few weeks back, and he said he wasn't seeing anybody else. I assumed we were on the same page. Today, I went to permanently disable my account because I thought I didnt need it anymore. And the guy I've been dating was online at the same time. The chances of him going on to delete his account at the same time are slim. I want to ask him but don't know how to approach the subject. If he is still on there, it makes me feel like he is still looking for something better. What do I say to him?
LilaMarie Posted August 11, 2015 Posted August 11, 2015 I was once seeing a guy (this was early on) and he talked about not having to define a relationship. I said it's fine but unless a guy tells me we are exclusive, then in my book it means I'm as free as a bird...well he decided shortly after that he wanted us to be exclusive. I always assume I'm free unless I have the exclusive conversation but that's just me.... I don't think you should say anything to him....it doesn't seem like you had an are-we-exclusive conversation...you just assumed you were exclusive because he said he wasn't seeing anyone....
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