bamawsp Posted August 10, 2015 Posted August 10, 2015 (edited) Hey Guys, Several of you know my story and I wanted to give you an update on where things stand. I uncovered and exposed a 6 year affair of hers with a coworker in late February. I filed for divorce on Marc h 19 and had her removed from the home via order of protection on April 9. As of today, she has yet to take/pass a hair follicle drug test and is still under supervised visits. She has been seeing a therapist which has helped some. Last week, she got in a fight with her Affair Partner at work after him discovering she was going on a date with another man. This led to threatening behavior including but not limited to beating on her windows at 2am. She filed and was granted a temporary order of protection from her Affair Partner. It took him all of 24 hours to violate the order and he was arrested yesterday morning. He was just bailed out this afternoon. I am 5 months into this with full custody and no end in sight. My lawyers seem to placating her by providing her with a pathway to 50/50 custody as opposed to going for the jugular and putting an end to this marriage. Any of you have any ideas on what to do now? Thanks in advance. Edited August 11, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Add link to consolidated update thread. 2
PegNosePete Posted August 11, 2015 Posted August 11, 2015 My lawyers seem to placating her by providing her with a pathway to 50/50 custody as opposed to going for the jugular and putting an end to this marriage. Your lawyers work for you. You need to take control of the situation and tell them what you want them to do. Not the other way around. If they won't do what you want them to then you should find a new one. 1
No Limit Posted August 11, 2015 Posted August 11, 2015 Well, there goes the special feeling of the affair for AP. As for the drug test, it will never happen. How are your kids doing?
Clay Posted August 11, 2015 Posted August 11, 2015 Document everything. Go down to the court house and get a copy of that order of protection. Tell your Lawyer your done and you either want them to go for full custody now or you will go find another lawyer. She is proving to be a stable 50/50 partner for your children. My xW is a train wreck too. She knew when she left I would fight to the end for my kids. You need to make this clear to her and your lawyers. C 1
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