Author PogoStick Posted August 12, 2015 Author Posted August 12, 2015 Another suggestion is similar to what I've often heard about; that men listen and try to solve her problems but she just wants her feelings to be heard. She explained this very well and said this is the ONE thing that men should learn. Instead of focusing on the problem, or how to fix it, focus on how the problem makes her feel. So let's say she's having a spat with another woman at work. The guy shouldn't be looking on how to fix that situation but instead ask "When she said those things about you how did it make you feel? Were you worried how the other co-workers would think about you because of it?" Of course, I've heard variations of this theme several times before, but this was explained a bit differently and I think will be a great tool in future relationships. 1
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