Don't Posted August 9, 2015 Posted August 9, 2015 Almost a month a go I met this girl Alice. She added me on facebook, because she was the maid of honor for my friend's wedding. My friend told her that I might be able help her if she needs anything regarding the wedding preparations. Anyways, I started to talk to her and we decided to meet. Our first date went awesome I even gave her piggy back riding; at the end of the day I drove her home and gave her a kiss. Second date was also great. We spent the whole day almost together, I also helped her to pick stuff for the wedding. Then she got disappeared for a week, she was busy with the wedding and told me she has no time. I told her ok and didn't text her for a while. One day before the wedding she called me for a favor and I helped her. She told me I was the best. The wedding day has arrived finally. She gave a speech about her and the bride. She texted me asking how the speech was which I received all the texts from that night a few days later. We danced together all night and we got really close. I went out for fresh air when I was back and my friends told me she was looking for me. So we danced more and she told me she was impressed with my dancing skills and I looked, smelled good. I complimented her too. I was supposed to pick up my friend from the airport that night. I told her I have to leave she told me she wanted to come with me I said ok. We went to my place first to grab my car. At the door we started to make out. She told me don't worry she's not going anywhere with a flirty voice. We went to the airport together driving holding hands and stuff. I dropped my friend home. She stayed at my place and we cuddled kissed but we had a long day and I already told her I wanted to take things slowly before. She couldn't sleep in my bed so she went to the couch.. She told me before that she has hard time sleeping in sone other people's bed. I couldn't sleep either for some reason. Next morning I went to her we cuddled and made out on the couch. I dropped her home. In the afternoon she asked me for coffee. I met her and took her out for a meal. She insisted to pay and told me if not she would pay the dessert. She told me even though bride and the groom left the city we should hang out and she mentioned she had great time with me. Things started going downhill after this. She had few job interviews coming up. We don't usually text back and fourth everyday. I decided to send good morning and good luck text with a wink face no answer. In the evening I said hey how did it go? She says it was good and follow up interview is within two days. Few days later I said hey beautiful how's your day going and again no response. I asked what time her interview is at she just said all day, finally on Friday I said hey my trip got cancelled so I'm in town what are you doing? No answer. She added me on snap chat when we met. I could see her having fun with her girl friend which is cool. I don't want to send her any more text messages because I don't want to seem clingy, but I want to know what's going on and I just don't want to assume she lost interest even though I think she did. I'm thinking of calling her on Saturday for the last time to see what she's saying and I'm totally cool if she tells me that she lost interest. I don't like when people cut contact all of a sudden and leave you hanging. I told her on our second date that I don't like reading signals and I want her to tell me if I do anything that bothers her. She actually told me couple stuff like putting her hair behind her ears which I was doing when I touched her face, but I stopped as soon as she told me. What do you guys think?
ExpatInItaly Posted August 10, 2015 Posted August 10, 2015 Yes, it sounds to me like she has lost interest. It might not have anything to do with you personally, so don't assume that small things (like putting her hair behind her ears) are the reason why. She could have her eye on someone else too. You could call her, but I think the message is already clear. It's not cool of her to pull the slow fade, but it seems that's what she's doing.
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