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i am a female currently dating another female which i love dearly. i trust her and she trusts me, but there is this guy she once kinda dated. well not really, shes only seen him a couple of times( 3 times i think) but in the three times she seen him they almost had sex. she also said that when she sees him she wants to jump his bones( a feeling i get when i see my ex) well lately he has been calling and i really dislike when he calls so i get mad and jealous.

 

should i be jealous that they are talking???

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Let's just say that I myself would be as well. She has professed her "lust" for her ex, being physical or emotional, it really doesn't matter. She is putting herself in a situation that is potentially dangerous. Talking to an ex is not something to be jealous over, unless there are some latent feelings there which turns a relationship thats over to a relationship that has some life again.

 

Have you told her that it makes you feel uneasy?

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Ive alas sed that if ur uneasy about sumet then let it b known.... dont keep fings inside becoz it'l mess wiv ur mind and b4 u kno it ur paranoid about evrything ur partner does!

 

I had this problem wiv my girlfriend.... he cheated on her but she still talked to him and she used to meet up wiv him once a week. he sed they r jus friends now but its jus not normal and it drove me crazy! i just asked her wot was goin on and she sed they r just m8s and i told her that i didnt like it and she sed 'i wont go c him agen' end of story.... they txt each uva now and agen but she doesnt c him no more and they dont talk on the fone or owt!

 

Basically wot im sayin is jus tell ur partner how u feel about it and if she cares 4 u then she shud understand.

 

Hope that helps! :)

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